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• I’m scared. posted (5 years, 9 months) ago
  I have these medical issues and the doctors don’t know what’s wrong with me. At least t…

• NJ Camping. posted (5 years, 10 months) ago
  Anyone now of any good campsites in New Jersey. I found lots on the web but looking for a recomenda…

• IF A MAN WANTS YOU posted (5 years, 10 months) ago
  If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him…

• Daughter Drama. posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  Ok. Here’s the issue. I have a 15 year old daughter. She’s been going through this dep…

• Anyone here live in N.C. posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  near Charlotte? I’m thinking of moving down that way and wanted to get some opinions.…

• Has anyone heard from Seven? posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  I know he went back home for a meeting and to see his family. I’m just a bit concerned.…

• Does anyone know of any way to clean up your credit? posted (5 years, 12 months) ago
  I have some things on there from about 5 years ago and it’s making my credit score low. My …

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DoubleO's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) ok so i am going out with tihs girl.
  

  Friends are important. As Anon says - talk to her. Explain that as much as you enjoy spending time with her you also can’t just ditch your friends. You want to spend time with them also.
  Ask her if she wants to watch you play football with your friends. Be your cheerleader :oD
  Or she can hang out with her friends while you hang out with yours.
  
  As for telling your parents - just tell them. How old are you? Have they ever mentioned anything about you dating? Maybe introduce them to her.
  
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago – voted for by danc64, DoubleO

• (1 vote) how do i speed up my system
  

  Get rid of any applications you don’t use. Go to control panel - add/delete programs and remove anything that you don’t use. Also, run spyware on your system to clean up anything someone else put out there.
  Check you system try (right hand corner of our windows). There could be things starting on startup of your pc that are slowing things down.
  If all of that is not enough you could also add more memory or a faster cpu.
  What kind of pc do you have?
  
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago – voted for by Jeff

• (1 vote) hi i just found out that i’m 3 months pregnent and i’m 16 !
  

  Have you raised a child at a young age kyndell?
  If her parents are willing to help then it’s not as hard. Yes there are things she will need to give up but children are not something to be discarded because the person is too young.
  This is her choice.
  To throw out “ABORTIONNNNNN TIMEEEEEEEE!!!!” like it’s an easy thing to do is not very nice.
  
  - written 5 years, 11 months ago – voted for by Angel (NO alex)

• (1 vote) i am 14 years old and would like to know about friends.
  

  Real friends are with you no matter what. Everyone gets mad once in a while but a true friend is someone that no matter what else is going on they will be there for you when you need them. Regardless of if they are mad at you at the time. Girls can be very judgemental and touchy. Especially at teenagehood.
  My daughter is 15. She has a group of friend that are always there for one another. They sometimes get annoyed at eachother but when something happens to one of them they all are there in a heartbeat. That’s what friends do.
  Someone that leaves you at a time of need is not a friend.
  
  - written 5 years, 11 months ago – voted for by PersonalPandaParty

• (1 vote) plz someone who use T-mobile in USA can u send international sms on my number?
  

  sure. send me a shout with your number.
  
  - written 5 years, 11 months ago – voted for by oleszka

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  Do these people spend any time with their child? It sounds like they are expecting you to raise their child for them. Why can’t they wake up with the child when they are home at night?
  I agree with everything you are saying. They probably wouldn’t get away with this with anyone else and are takeing advantage of you. If thye don’t agree then it’s time to look for something different.
  Good luck.
  - written 5 years, 6 months ago

• I never used to be scared of numbers.
  

  holly crap batman. That was really good. I didn’t want it to end. I want to know what else happens. You are such a talented writer. Please don’t ever stop.
  - written 5 years, 6 months ago

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  Sounds like you have things worked out.
  Good luck.
  - written 5 years, 7 months ago

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  A friend of mine has an au pair for her twins (in the US) and she only works from 7am to 6pm monday through friday. Weekends is her time and nights are her time. That was the rule by the agency.
  You should set down some rules. Sit both the parents down and tell them that this is the hours you work and these are your days off to do as you please. If they need more then that then they should pay you accordingly.
  - written 5 years, 7 months ago

• Me and my coworker , we both work as teachers in a preschool, and we were talking about spanking children.
  

  Sorry I didn’t read all the replies. I’m just going to give my opinion here. I have children and I only spank them when nothing else will work. I do however threaten them with it. And because I have done it as a last resort they know I would do it again. So most of the time that works. It’s never hard. It hurts there feelings more then their little butts because they have upset me to that point. Afterwards they get sent to their rooms and after a few minutes I make them explain to me what they did wrong. They need to understand. Then they get a kiss, hug and I tell them that I love them. My children are very well behaved.
  Anyway, my point is spanking can come in handy to control a child. Children need control. They respect you more for it. I don’t believe that anyone other then the parents should spank a child. It’s not their job to disapline your child.
  - written 5 years, 7 months ago

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