One of my theories is that the only one who can determine what happens to us is ourselves. Whatever religion someone chooses to believe, if they truely believe in it, that will apply to that person. For those of us who don’t particularly beilive in one thing or another, hopefully with age and wisdom we will find some peaceful answers. - written 1 week, 5 days ago
To assume one way or another that you will live in the same place will be misleading. The only way to see to that measure is if you talk to your partner about it, look at where you both are at in your lives at the moment, and what you both have ahead of you. Things change day to day, right now it might look like you will not end up in the same place, months from now that could completely change, vice versa. Also, the seriousness of your relationship matters. If you are both serious about being together, then the talk of moving to the same place primarily because of eachother is not an innapropriate topic. If things in both of your lives make it impossible to be closer, then that can be harder. Talk about it with your partner, the best thing you can do is keep communication and your feelings clear and true with each other. The rest will fall in place. - written 1 week, 5 days ago
humanity will never be perfect. many many people will never strive for anything but thier own greed. I am sure if you ask God for strength to perservere through dealing with these people, you will have it. You can’t change others, only how you are around them. - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago
try to convince her to move in with you or find a friend to share a place with. it sounds like she knows she can leave but she probably feels responsible at some level for doing all the things her parents make her do and she doesn’t have the will power up yet to stand up for herself and tell them she’s over 18 and has her own life to live. so she either needs to leave or fight for her wants, once she identifies those for sure. - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago
[quote pink sparkle]Does your friend try to make your friendship work too?[/quote]
yes she does. but then blames me for its not working. i tell her friendships change as our lives change but maybe she just can’t let go of how things used to be… its really hard walking away because she makes me laugh and can be fun to be around but… the majority of the time i find myself asking if i really want to be friends with the kind of person she is and then beat myself up for even thinking like that of her, i don’t like to judge people. - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago
