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• I am angry, upset, frustrated, depressed, confused….. posted (4 years, 2 months) ago
  This is so stupid…. I’m really starting to feel overwhelmed with life and it’s com…

• Thoughts goin through my head today, plz read & comment. posted (4 years, 3 months) ago
  I long for something to pour my life into It’s been so long since I could remember when I eve…

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• (1 vote) My life has become so difficult,
  

  Hey don’t cut. I’ve been down that path, and it just leads to shame. I really shouldn’t be talking, i’ve done a lot of stupid things. Just know that you’re not alone, and that everybody has their downs. If you need to talk just let it out. There’s no harm in sharing here. I’ve definitely posted more than once here, and believe it or not, there are people who care for you, even if they barely know you. You affect the people around you, whether you like to think you do or not. I’ve hit a lot of lows, but now I know that you’re always gonna hit lows, sometimes all new lows, but it’s the climbing back up that is really much harder. I’m still climbing back up, still waiting for the top. If you don’t wanna talk here, you should definitely talk to somebody, even if it’s not about your problems. Just hanging out with people who are close to you can change how you feel.
  
  - written 4 years, 3 months ago – voted for by Sans

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• I am angry, upset, frustrated, depressed, confused…..
  

  I’m not even sure where to find a counsellor to be honest. I’ve talked to my doctor about this kind of stuff (well the school stuff), but she referred me to some psychiatrist or something but it requires me to go through health insurance and stuff. I’m currently covered under a plan by my parents, and I really don’t talk to them about this sort of thing and I would hate for them to find out that I need to go to a psychoolgist or psychiatrist. They would definitely ask me why and I don’t want to have to deal with that…. What kind of options do I have?
  - written 4 years, 2 months ago

• I am angry, upset, frustrated, depressed, confused…..
  

  I don’t know. I’ve confronted her about all this. And she says that her feelings for me are different, and that what we have pretty much totally blows whatever she has with everybody else out of the water. I mean I don’t want to lose my friends, and the idea was to re-build back up the friendships. Also I’m trying my hardest to get lost in school, but when I’m there I just can’t stop thinking about my social situation, but then when I’m at home I’m trying to keep myself busy so I don’t think about it too much, it’s even getting to the point at which I’m finding it hard to sleep. I’m trying my hardest to focus on school, but this keeps bothering me, I’m not sure what to do. I know that like the sensible thing would be to let this girl go, but I’m finding it really hard to let her go and this is constantly on my mind and distracting me….
  - written 4 years, 2 months ago

• I’m scared for college.
  

  Everybody is scared when they start something new. Just hang in there. Once you get to college, you’ll meet a lot of people who feel they are in the same boat as you. Just pursue what you want to pursue, and if it doesn’t work out, you can always do something else. You’re still young, you still have a lot ahead of you. It’s never too late.
  - written 4 years, 3 months ago

• My life has become so difficult,
  

  If you haven’t been to counselling have you told anybody, or does anybody you trust know?
  - written 4 years, 3 months ago

• My life has become so difficult,
  

  Hey don’t cut. I’ve been down that path, and it just leads to shame. I really shouldn’t be talking, i’ve done a lot of stupid things. Just know that you’re not alone, and that everybody has their downs. If you need to talk just let it out. There’s no harm in sharing here. I’ve definitely posted more than once here, and believe it or not, there are people who care for you, even if they barely know you. You affect the people around you, whether you like to think you do or not. I’ve hit a lot of lows, but now I know that you’re always gonna hit lows, sometimes all new lows, but it’s the climbing back up that is really much harder. I’m still climbing back up, still waiting for the top. If you don’t wanna talk here, you should definitely talk to somebody, even if it’s not about your problems. Just hanging out with people who are close to you can change how you feel.
  - written 4 years, 3 months ago

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