nope, your pic and I am damn sure that my opinion is you can have what ever you want.
But I was wondering why you choose it. I don’t think i’m reading something that isn’t there, I mean the pose is deliberate, but I didn’t think you saw it that way. wanted to see how you saw it and why you choose it?
Emotional punching bag? Only offer it as much as you want. There is always more grief, so only give as much love as is healthy for you.
money does come in useful for many things it’s true. There does come a point where you can relax a bit, not worry so much if you’ll be able to eat if something like the car needing a service comes along. First time you have some cloths that you like and fits you, and you can buy what you want, not just what you need in life - it’s gooood.
lol, you wanna talk about it? i might not have answers but i do seem to be everyones emotional punchbag.
my worlds ok, tired mainly. mostly because of the house party behing my house last night, looks like its becoming a habit, its the 4th week in a row. i havent minded before, it hasnt be quiet but i found i could sleep, but last night they were shouting and screaming and blasting music, couldnt sleep at all. i wonder at what point i should call the police, i just dont like being a party pooper but i really need sleep and we live next to an old peoples home, they cant have been happy.
havent had the bumper paypacket yet so i dont know what its gonna be like. i think i might be able to save it better, this weird thing happens, i spend all my money in about two weeks after i get paid, but if i have more than £500 in my bank accout i dont spend a penny! idk why lol.
i do need some new clothes, but i need to save up for my car insurance and my car is slowly dieing too so it will go toward that i guess. i have an awful feeling i will still want more money
Thanks for explaining. I didn’t think I was creepy at all really, but was interested in your POV. I was a bit creepy when I was younger, but it was just because I didn’t know better.
I was picked up by someone much younger, she had a hard time as I didn’t think there was anything in it, saw myself as more the older brother. It made me realise than as soon as someone is independent, they may be open to sharing.
A bit like discovering you are bi I guess, means so many more people are on your radar.
The only people I’ve found creepy is people you can’t talk to about it. People who are fake, or nervous, but I cut through that pretty quick and go “rahhh, whats up”
rant rant. got a few things on my mind, so I find myself typing about anything to keep my mind churning over…
how goes your world today? This the first time you’ve had your own steady income? how’s it treating you?
of course you dont creep me out! i think its all about how people say stuff and the intention behind it.
like theres a few older guys at my work who i talk to. i like most of them and i know its just friendly conversation but this creepy guy, idk, he kinda just gets up really close and always seems super happy to see me, like it makes his day when he sees me there. its not just like a ‘hi, nice to see you, now we can have a laugh and joke’ its a ‘OMG this made my day, i missed you so much i dont know what i would do if you wasnt here’ kinda thing
Was about creepy guys. I first met you on a post where you were wondering what was wrong with your personality as you were good looking but no guys interested. That was you right?
I flirted and tried offer some advice and encouragement.
Now you have creepy guys aplenty.
So my question is about being creepy. I’ve just started at a new office job with an intake of 12 people. Been working blue collar with only blokes for two years. My female friends I’ve known for years, and usually women make the.first move romantically.
So now I am in a office environment with many women around your age, and we get along fine, but I have this vauge fear of being creepy now.
So, if its cool to ask, did you ever find me creepy?
It valudates how I feel too, seeing it in others. People getting frustrated that their employment advice doesn’t cheer you up. Hard for people to comprehend that unless you have a sage place to unwind, recharge and connect and heal, then facing even tiny challenges is tough. Well, that was me anyway.
I didn’t want more I had to do, not more advice about what was wrong, just a quiet friend offering a sandwich and an open ear.
idk what happened, he seemed a bit shy when we met. he says hes confident and that but didnt talk much, couldnt really in the cinema. idk, maybe he just doesnt want a girlfriend atm. he keeps mentioning lack of money. but idk, he says hes not interested then sends messages like that. i guess the safe bet is to act as friends
so the guy i was dating just sent me this, we were talking about ways to kill each other, weird i know but he said he wanted a cute girl like me to do it, then i asked how he would do it to me and he said this:
‘id seduce you and convince you that the best thing for you was to have as much sex with me as you possibly could, and id take you to fancy restaurants and luxurious holidays and stuff, and then in 50 years from now, id take you out to sea on a yatch, tie you up all sexily and stuff, and then chuck you overboard’
i dont get it, why say it if hes not interested? im confused now, i dont want to get hurt again
still texting is going to give you confidence in the long run, but real life is pretty confronting if you aren’t use to it.
I’ve had a female friend visit form OS, and I thought it was the same in real life, but she bailed after a few days as it turns out she had a crush and I wasn’t returning her vibe. Pity, was a great holiday other than her freaking out. People are all interesting and different, just have to learn to roll with it.
if you aren’t scared off by my religious ranting, and you liked the idea of that date, come find me on yahoo sometime. I like getting to know new people.
actually come to think of it, maybe. i do like piano music a bit more now i met him (he plays piano) and maybe a bit of ricky gervais. maybe it was in common but it did feel a bit like he was stealing my car. i think he liked me and wanted to have a relationship, but i just wasnt the same as i was through text or fb
yeah, i guess i just dont know myself anymore. i seem to chage with the people i interact with, i dont like that, i want to be me and not influenced. like this guy i was dating, i mentioned a car i really wanted and the next day he put a pic of it on his facebook page, same happened with i song i really liked but was unheard of, he posted that too. oh and he was texting me one night and i said i was gonna get a sandwich, got one, an hour later he posted mmm sandwich on his facebook page.
being kinda to myself is what i do when alone, so yes. i will be back better and stronger than ever before. i will get a man coz i deserve one. i just have to figure out how to meet one.