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first of all, please let me say how sorry i am. i do not know where you live but in texas there is a place called the warm place and it was established just for families who has lost someone very special and important to them. it is grief counseling and they especially work with children. if you do not live in texas see if there is something similiar there. i used the service when my died and my children took it very very hard. i cannot tell you how important it is to get help to see you through, your kids need you to help them get past it and it will be very hard at first but then it will get easier. it may not seem like it but it really really will.