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• I am fifteen years old and 1 month pregnant.
  

  Dear Lauren,
  
  We all admire you and your courage at this tough stage of life. I agree and believe whatever you said. I know a person who disliked sex and had no knowledge of it at all until the age of 30 years. It took more than a year for her fiance to help her learn & enjoy it.
  
  There is a Indian movie “Kya Kehna” (meaning what you say?).The story is as follows: (considered to have actually happened in India, where sex is taboo and people are very conservative):-
  
  “A girl loved a guy and had sex and got pregnant. The guy being a very rich boy dumped her. She was pressurized by her family (especially by her father) to abort the child, but she was firm and went ahead. Then, her family understood her & supported her fully.
  
  Her college mates shunned her, but she fought back and told “I have not done a crime, only a mistake. I loved the guy who dumped me, and still love him. Being a mother is not a crime, but something noble and I could not abort the child. I do not think that I am guilty to have trusted or loved someone and for not killing a child.” Everyone admired her & helped her with her pregnancy.
  
  Through out her ordeal, her childhood friend supported her and finally proposed to her just before her delivery. At the same time, the boy who dumped her begged for forgiveness from the girls’ family and agreed to marry her.
  
  After the child was born, the guy came to marry her, but the girl refused to marry him, saying that he had not supported her when she needed him. Her parents were worried about her future. But, she said that she will marry her childhood friend who gave her love & support.”
  
  A nice story, similar to yours only difference, that the other guy played with you and you have strong support from your family (mother) and your boy friend. We are glad for that. Your boyfriend is a noble soul and is a REAL MAN. God bless you both.
  
  Let time decide for you, now simply live for the day and live with pride & dignity. Being a MOTHER IS NOT A CRIME, IT IS A NOBLE THING AND A MAN IS NOT NEEDED TO MAKE THIS THING NOBLE OR LEGAL.
  
  Regarding, being a teenager or an adult, does not matter; what matters is that “YOU ARE NOW WISER, BRAVER, STRONGER & MUCH MUCH BETTER THAN THE OTHER PEOPLE OF YOUR AGE GROUP. YOU ARE A VERY BRAVE GIRL, EXTRAORDINARY IN THIS WORLD”. Have faith & courage in yourself and the people who mean good for you, things shall look up. As, they say “There is a silver lining behind every dark cloud. Things do not look all that bad.” PLEASE DO NOT EVER FEEL BAD, GUILTY OR SORRY FOR ANYTHING, WHATEVER HAS HAPPENED HAS HAPPENED. PAST IS PAST. JUST LIVE FOR TODAY AND AUTOMATICALLY TOMORROW SHALL BE A BETTER DAY!
  
  Wishing you all the best and praying for your good health & cheer. Please do keep in touch and tell of your health & life progress. Am sure, God shall guide you and things shall be bright & happy.
  
  With best wishes, love, & blessings from all of us.
  Your friends & well wishers & Supporters
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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