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• (1 vote) My dad is the only person I trust!
  

  allan_kirkwoo, its sad that your friends let you down but its bad if you beat yourself up. And its good to rely on yourself but friends, sometimes you need them, it feels, if you are too long without them, too lonely. It will take its time until you’ll recognize but I swear, being hurt and let down is better than being alone.
  
  And its wonderful if you’ve got your dad, but he isn’t a ‘friend’. There is a great difference and you should think about that twice. Friends that let you down are not worth of you, but you should seek out for new friends, no matter how often you get hurt or let down. You’ll regrett it later, at the time when you need them.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by Allan

• (1 vote) How do you make a girl like you?
  

  done. and now?
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by SEEM

• (1 vote) My friend is encouraging me to take drugs
  

  Hey, really, try to get other friends! It must be hart of letting go, especially if he understands you… but better try with internet friends who cant hug you but wont force you to something. Please stay away from drugs it’s the worst you can do.
  
  so you already take drugs?
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by SEEM

• (1 vote) What is the point of being alive?
  

  I think that its the best, that at the given moment you try to give your best and do the, in your eyes, best choice. What comes out, you will know in the future - and when you can say than I TRIED MY BEST, then you shouldn’t regrett it.
  I think that’s it what SEEM was trying to say, which I agree with.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by derekkroeker

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• Hi everyone.
  

  I wish you all luck you can possibly have and a life full of happiness with your fiance - soon husband.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Love or money or sex?
  

  Hm. Tough stuff.
  
  Money is always necessary. What gives you love when you have a child with your ‘loved’ person and cant provide food and savety, education and medicin for your child?
  
  Theoretically love. Makes you feel good and needed, gives you a reason. Give and take, love, the thing all human search for. And I dont necessarely mean romantical love but just love in general, also from friends. If there is someone who saids he/she doesnt even need that then… hahaha, much fun and good luck.
  
  Anyways, sex, in my eyes not that important. Can be really nice (bad/grat/amazing - depends haha) and is a good accesiour when you romantically love someone but thats it.
  
  But I could dont think I’d be able to chose between the one or the other, if I had to.
  
  That’s all I have to say about that^^
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• i have noone as a support to me and i feel i may not make it
  

  Hm, maybe you should first explain what your problem is?
  And yea, you cant connect with anyone, but dont worry about it. There are millions of people you havent met and talked to yet.
  
  And what are you afraid of failing?
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Hi, I’m having some problems.
  

  Hey,
  
  do you have any idea why you are that unmotivated to do anything?
  Is there something that particularly cheers you up, keeps you going?
  Like friends, a sport, reading etc. Something?
  
  And like Anon above said, talking might help. It always helps to get something off your chest.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Why do people fall in love, It just happens or there
  

  I guess this is up to you, how to think that. How to interpret it.
  I mean, most of the times people fall in love with these types, they admire. Or at least who have some points they admire and dont have themselves.
  
  As example self esteem. People with low self esteem mostly fall for people with a great amount of it.
  
  Is that fate? To learn to get more self esteem himself?
  Or does it just happen?
  
  Seriously, that’s up to you to decide what to think of it.
  
  But yea, if you want to discuss and maybe share some thoughts, then please go ahead.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

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