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• Nobody showed us how to practice limits. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
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  And if so, what would this be called?…

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• (1 vote) my two friends that are the only people i hang out with in my neighborhood are mad at me.they think i have changed a whole lot.
  

  I will tell you as I tell my sons, You don’t beg for anything or anyone. That’ll make you look bad always. It’s true what littlenick wrote to you, “Friends have a tendency to outgrow one another”. You have to consider that they’ve changed… there is nothing wrong with you. Obviously they are the ones that don’t want to hang with you anymore… they changed, and you, you still want to hang around. Get new friends and always be happy, never have hard feeling towards them, say hi to them when you see them but don’t stay long. Oh another thing, I know it’s going to sound a little harsh, but if I were you, I wouldn’t trust them no more. They saw that you are too clingy and as soon as you start to show that you really are not caring to be around them any longer, believe me they will try something else. Just stay apart and just say hi and bye to them, do not participate on anything with them, the trust from now on should be limited. That is life, unfortunately, but you will survive. Always be the Greatest, and that is so good of you to seek for help. That shows that you are a great person. You will not have any problems getting true friends.
  Never forget who Loves you more… God of course!
  God Bless you,
  MariGmz
  
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by dove7

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• I am pissed off fed up pissed off down on myself fed up.
  

  It is time to do it right this time. Everytime someone fails, it’s because they haven’t learnt how to handle the situation right.
  
  Whatever you are going through now, yeah, you got all backed up… Now it is time to start from the beginning and considering and respecting your limits.
  
  You probably are the kind that loves to help people and sort of like a perfectionist on it too. You have to stop and if no one has ever respected you… try to define yourself as a Queen, what would people do when the queen walks in. That is what you should expect from people to treat you this way.
  
  But it all starts with you! No one is perfect!
  
  If someone is use to you, being there for them… In your head, inside that skull of yours, should be “UNDER CONSTRUCTION” sign. It is ok to say NO I CAN’T HELP YOU NOW, but I will go …..
  
  Make a list and start by respecting yourself first. Keep your promises to yourself. Be honest to yourself … then you’ll be honest to others.
  To love yourself for who you are is accepting people the same way, with true love. Nothing is perfect in this world. Why are you so harsh on yourself. Do you know that as God lent children to parents, He also can take them away. So where do people figure that these children are theirs. Really, all children are suppose to be guided for one purpose, not for our satisfaction, but to teach them well so they can teach others the same way. For the better living of God.
  
  I was diagnosed not being able to carry children, prolapse bladder, small canal, not being able to last long in me. And still have the problem… But who is greater… God of Course! I have two miracle baby’s (10 years apart) Never expected both, but was ready to adopt the first time I was told the news. And I asked God to give me the right child to adopt, and there He did. Got pregnant! The Doctor was so amazed because his wife has one of my problems. You just have to know how to love yourself, accept yourself for who you are… Always be true to yourself, be loving to yourself so you can show the same to others. I hope this helped you a little, and don’t think that I don’t still go through what you go through, I think no one is perfect and there is always time to change and start again over, and always go for the right way… always, because that is what life will give you back.
  
  I have to go now, But if you have any questions, around 8pm I will sign in again, and if you want to leave me a mssg. do so ok!
  
  God bless you
  Love you lots,
  MariGmz
  
  Ps. Write your list!
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• I’m really sad and it’s screwing over the rest of my life….
  

  Well, what I see is that you are very focused mainly on the people, when you are the one that needs to focus on yourself.
  
  I will tell you what I tell my son. If you are trying to look to partner up. You have to love yourself first.
  
  Example: When you see a bum on the street (not that you are one and I’m not trying to compare you to one, but your actions yes), when you see a bum, do people crave to be with that person? ……why?
  That person has given up on himself and maybe on others!
  
  You need to always show success to be success, be nice because YOU are nice, not because you are being nice to be noticed, but because you are nice PERIOD.
  
  You need to accept yourself as who you are and the world will accept you as you accept yourself to be…. but that only comes in when you really are true to yourself.
  
  Have you seen a person in your life that is maybe fat, or has a big behind, or a big nose, or any imperfection…. to the point that you say… Dang, this person acts as if she’s all fine, and sometimes because her attitude or his attitude (cause it can go to anyone), attitudes can totally manifest into being likable, admirable, etc. And you know why they act like this? Because they have accepted themselves and they aren’t going to stop for anyone. They are who they are and most likely they are people who understand others because they usually are the ones that once were feeling like you and now they can help others.
  
  My suggestion is to take life as it comes, don’t worry everything has it’s time. I highly recommend to talk to God. Tell Him your worries and ask Him what is it that He wants from you, and you will see what He will put in your life… many times ppl ask God “I want… this, I want… that…,” but, sometimes we need to stop and ask Him also, what is it that God wants from us! I mean He will listen to you and if you tell Him to give you something, in the name of the son Jesus, it is written, that it shall be done. Well Ruidosa, I know you will be ok, just stay always sweet, don’t ever let your heart be hardened.
  God Bless you. If you have any questions, write to me.
  
  Lots of love,
  MariGmz
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• this is extended from another post i had up.
  

  [quote Anonymous]Nice, but sad. Makes me think of somebody losing a child to death.[/quote]
  
  I agree it is a sad poem, with lots to say.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• this is extended from another post i had up.
  

  [quote BeAuTiFuL*DiAsTeR][quote marigmz]That whoever wrote this has a terminal illness, that could be any type of Cancer, leukemia, or Aids. Can I ask, Why do you want input on this?[/quote]
  
  hmm. actually the person who wrote this has none of those you listed.
  why does it have to be some kind of illness?
  – just curious?[/quote]
  
  Because that is what a person feels when they have a terminal illness.
  Terminal illness can be any type of disease, even mental.
  
  wake up sleeping child,
  the fight is over now.
  no more tears and cries,
  gods given you a bow.
  
  (This to me means that the battle has overcome)
  
  you wont feel anymore pain.
  now that you are in my arms.
  
  (to feel no more pain is to be expired)
  
  just lay still, relax, dont fear me.
  i am your one and true father, dont you see?
  come here dear child,
  now i have a question to ask.
  
  (Here feels like whoever wrote the poem is, to his or her knowledge, already in heaven speaking to God)
  
  where would you like to go?
  its fine, dont rush, i would like this to last.
  
  (Now this is the part I like… because you have One master not two, and we the people are given the choice to choose)
  
  i would like you to go with me,
  but it is your choice you see,
  becuase if you go with me,
  you wont be with your family.
  
  (here to me means, that the family is an unbeliever and until they awake from the dead, or from their ignorance)
  
  you will see them in time to come.
  when they have had their time,
  
  (Here to me is abuse)
  
  he will never touch you again.
  you will forever and always be mine.
  
  -corena(:
  
  Beautiful disaster, I am just trying to help you to understand a point of view of this one poem written by corena. I hope you see where it can confuse people!
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

• Help me , i think im a cat, im not joking,this isnt a prank.
  

  Why do I keep getting interrupted by this… You are still up… What’s up with that? Is that Joshy and Norris still on? Oh well finally Norris likes something that I like watching, the U.F.C or M.M.A. And if you seek you will find one of my closest family members there too! I hope there is no more interruptions and Joshy you need to go to sleep I know you have insomnia, but need to work with that! Take care you guys.
  - written 6 months, 3 weeks ago

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