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i want to earn money so that i can live comfortably, but yes i would like a meaningful job to.

community hall or if your parents will allow you, you could resort to a houseparty just cut down on number of people invited, other than that i cant suggest alot ! nothings cheap these dayss !

right well i sorta understood what you were saying !!it seems that your in a confusing situation, but i think you need to consider that your friend isnt ready for a relationship,and this is fair enough so you need to give the girl some space. your at the age where your experimental and finding yourselves and what you feel comfortable with, this is what your friend appears to be doing and isnt completely settled with the person she is, where as you seem pretty set on what you want. your friend nos that you have feelings for her thats all you can do, its up for her to make up her mind you cant do it for her however frustrating that might be. if she doesnt seem interested you just have to move on im afraid however hard might be, eventually you’ ll find someone thats right for you.

how long ago was it that this accident happen?it will probably take her i while to to grieve over the loss of a close friend and something that only her can get over however hard that will be for u to watch her, but she has to go through this process in order to heal. and you seem like a caring guy and im sure she nos that so your doing the right thing by letting her know that your there. she probably feels that you dont undastand how she feels aswell so attempts you are making to console her just annoy her- this is not your or her fault. just give her the space she needs and a shoulder to cry on when she needs it, if she truly feels lost with it all you could allways suggest that she talks to someone like a councillor but not till shes gone through the grieving stage. its hard seeing your loved ones upset specially if they dont want to talk to you, but half the reason is not because she doesnt love or need you but people closest to you can often be the hardest people to talk to.

you need to think about your current situation and if you are truly happy with it, you can love someone but sometimes it takes more than love for you to have a healthy relationship for example you need trust and excitement, passion, interest in your partner. if you still have these then you have to way up whether its worth risking all you have worked towards in 2 years for a friend, also does your friend feel the same way about you?its also actually fairly normal to think about other people you have strong connections with in a sexual/ loving manner but this doesnt necessary mean you want to be with them.think about your true feelings and how you would feel if you werent with your current boyfrend. i no its hard situation ive been there myself and honestly thought i liked someone else and chucked my relationship away- it wasnt worth it,not saying your situation is the same as mine just think before you act. good luck !xxx