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i never heard this song by rod stewart– this is excellent! thank you so much for sharing! very heartfelt and touching. i’m so glad i know this song now!

great! :)

ok i will!! :)) hope all the friends requests went though too—

i will– thanks– actually, how would i let you guys know? just put a post up?

yeah r12starie1— well he mentioned moving in, he was with you for 5 years. that supposed to mean he loves you greatly–so in my opinion it was safe and smart to give him your heart. grab it back right this instant and don’t give it back. he doesn’t deserve it.
he’s messed up– you’ll be better off without him because noone does this after being with someone for that long unless something’s wrong with them—

yeah i’m so glad you posted this– because i think it will help you– i’ll do my part to give you perspective and hopefully help– sounds like he felt guilty because he could see you loved him and he didn’t love you– not in the same way– so good riddance to him– let him go– at least he was honest about it–but one thing really stands out– five years? something is up– it’s ok to tell someone after a month or so that you don’t love them the same way, but 5 years? what is this guy’s problem?
and yeah! much better to know now than after you’re married! trust me :)
dave

yup he likes you– talk to him

yeah sucks– i think the worst is looking for work man– i’ve been there many times. the economy isn’t exactly generous with work nowadays as well–
but check craigslist.com in your area and just go around and apply– even at crappy retail stores– you’ll find something man, then build from there–

also, how old are you?

hi bunkstar2– yes that is natural to hate someone for not wanting you back. but it has nothing to do with how worthy of a person you are. maybe you’re just not for him. maybe he sucks! haha.
honestly– seems like you need to gather your thoughts and chill– but feel free to straighten things out on here with me if i’m not making any sense.
bottom line, don’t waste your energy or time on anyone who doesn’t want you– and if you can;t stop thinking about them (believe me, i know what that feels like very well) then cut off all contact with this guy and in a month you’;ll feel better. it’s going to suck but when you look back on it you are gonna wonder why you ever put any effort for this person and realize you’re wasting yourself thinking about him.
hope this makes sense.
and yes the medication will pretty much not work, especially if you are taking three! ****. medication kinda helps you give a push but you got to do the rest of the work yourself.
if you can, honestly, get off of them. they’ll just weaken you and mess you up if you take them for a while.

yeah spend $50 and get norton antivirus 2009 and run that on your computer. that keeps things clean for PCs. one day if you can, get a MAC– MACs are very stable and they do not get any viruses at all!! you can get a used one for a good price. and wow– cailean’s post rocks.

yeah it’s going to be ok dude– just chill– if your town is too small then move into a big city– depends what your age is tho– if you’re young you’re gonna have to stick it out– it’s not a big deal man– hundreds of millions (one in ten) of people in this world are gay– just accept it– if you’re having a bad time now, understand the day will come (sooner than you think) that you’ll make good friends and really enjoy being gay one day dude– trust me– i have 3 friends (and one close relative) who realized they were gay and it was all the same story for them. a couple of years of having a hard times because they didn’t accept themselves, but when they accepted it– they were so happy– too happy!! haha— you’ll be ok man– hang in there and love yourself–

listen– you are overwhelmed, that is all. and that is a big thing that can lead to depression, anxiety and maybe cripple you mentally. (you know, you get so overwhelmed that you can’t make good decisions anymore, you get constantly tired and unable to function) and it will get worse if you stay down this path.
you need to take a break from school. school can wait. you health cannot. take a year off and enjoy the time with your baby. work at an easy job if you need to work. please do this and just do the minimum basic needs for yourself. cut all ALL stressers that you can cut out. you can cut out a lot– make yourself a list on paper.
don’t deal with drama, especially from your mate who wasn’t there for you when you gave birth. you already have so much work and responsoibility to deal with raising your baby.
and to top it off, if that is your real picture you are beautiful. you have so much going for you. don’t get clouded and confused and waste your great life. post here as much as you need to.

wait a second– so this guy that was abusive to you, is he the one that had his mother pass away?
because if so, I have a LOT to say to you about this guy, who right now is sounding like a manipulative and possibly psychotic bastard.

yes never stay in a relationship where you are abused in any way. jcd and ++edie++ and beatricegalant all are right– stay single. build up your strength. find out who you are. don’t fall into the trap of getting into another relationship where you will be abused or even dependent on that person. look up “co-dependency” in google and research. and get off of the anti=depressants as fast as you can. eat three healthy meals a day and exercise and go out for walks 5 days a week. get better. get healthy. this is your life.