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JoJo
2 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Hey guys. Long time no talk. I hope you are both doing great.

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Ell♥
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Your right. Its a shame it took so long but theres nothing I can do about it. At least I’m all sorted now.
I miss my teenage years though. I skipped all of them. I didn’t live any of it. I was too swamped down with depression and all sorts. I don’t know whether to feel it was me who drove away my friends or if it was them who were not real friends by abandoning me. All I know is there gone now and its hard starting all over again. But i’m managing. Slowly but surely :)

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Ditzy
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

we will most defiantly make time for you 2 :D we should meet up for a meal or some thing when we are there and talk about the good old days :D I will let Blake know you are on the end of the phone if he needs to talk. Think maybe it would be a good idea if he did call you as he has a lot of trust and love for you 2 :) and some how your good at making things make sense lol
any ways lots of love and hugs :D

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Ditzy
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

haha yeah that is brilliant news :D I am now looking for a job - Blake is finally sorting out some of his issues from the past (stress leave from work) but other wise we are both still very much in love and finding new friends!!! friends of the non-drug using kind. We’re getting in to playing dungeons and dragons and eating out with the new friends and having simple legal fun :D he is now realizing that we dont need illegal to relax. Its all very exciting.
We are going to try and plan another trip out to Vegas for the anniversary in October but this time do other stuff that isnt on the strip and involves money. Our new friends know lots of interesting non-expensive stuff to do :D so they might be coming with us. Its all very exciting. We will keep you posted :D hows you 2 doing? :) not seen you in a while :)

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Ditzy
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

called about 1 week ago :S last Wednesday about midday :) we had just been to our immigration interview :D been told we are getting a 2 year green card that makes me a permanent resident :D so no more paperwork for another 21 months WOOHOO then I renew the card to a full 10 year green card :D during which time we will probably go for citizenship :D

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Ditzy
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

hai folks!!! good news - tried to call but got answer machine (hate those things) you here?

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Ell♥
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

I’ve been doing really well actually lately. Learned to more or less ignore my dad and not let things get to me-which in turn has made most of his efforts to argue and abuse me die down.
I’m doing alright and i’m pretty happy. Holding down a job and just doing things I like for once. It makes a change but it is all worth it and your right its made me stronger.

Anytime I can return the favour-you can (both) always talk to me :)

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►Shizuko-Sophie◄
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

The I wish you luck…. good to see you have not forgotten your friends here.

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candp
2 months, 3 weeks ago

Well, among other things we have embarked on new journey in our lives that has brought much clarity to us and Oprah has a website for others on the same journey so we have been spending our computer time on Oprah. We are happy all is well with you.

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►Shizuko-Sophie◄
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

I am fine…. mum is away at the moment but all has been well.

Where have you been..?

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►Shizuko-Sophie◄
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

just let you know you are charge for being absent without leave.

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Ell♥
2 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Well I was looking through some of my very first posts to close them and I got reading and saw you there. You helped me out with some family problems & my alcoholic dad.

Those first few weeks at help really helped me out in the long run so I wanted to thank you :)

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cookies and cream
2 months, 4 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

I am envious of your weather! We’re lucky when we have some sun… and when it does come, it gets covered up by cloud pretty soon!
I hope you have a relaxing time :)

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cookies and cream
2 months, 4 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Life is excellent thank you :D Are you having a good summer? (Is it even summer for you?)

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cookies and cream
2 months, 4 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Hello you two!

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Ell♥
3 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

Just want to say…you really helped me on a post i made about 6/7 months ago. And i wanted to say thankyou. You and a couple of others really changed my life for the better. If theres anything i can do…please ask me. I owe you a lot.

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jetmoo
3 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

hehe the physical world lol well gud to hear your both well :)

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artistguy
4 months ago, ShoutTrail

candp, have you heard from Tapdancer recently? I am wondering how she is. Thanks.

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jetmoo
4 months ago, ShoutTrail

I just wanted to say hi :) do you remember me still? seems i rarly come on here lol I just read through one of the post yous helped with, yous do really well with helping people :) hope yous are doing okay x

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bssa
4 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

well, maybe it should be up to us, at least a little bit. i mean, we use the site don’t we? is there a way to contact the administrators?

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Papa Bear
4 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Hello,
Hope your both a ok

:)

Look forward to seein ya on the msn one of these days.

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bssa
4 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

ahhh, got it. sorry, sometimes my emotions get the better of me. although, why isn’t cr*p allowed? it’s not a curse or innapropriate. i also noticed we cant say d*mn. is there a reason for this? i mean, i’ll follow the rules no problem *nods*. but, those two words really aren’t that bad at all.

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candp
4 months, 2 weeks ago

Thanks. He is recovering well. We’ll see you around.

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►Shizuko-Sophie◄
4 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

I have been good…..

sounds like you have been busy.

I hope Paul has recovered.

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►Shizuko-Sophie◄
4 months, 2 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

good to see you back….why so long..?

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Bacon, God of Gods
6 months ago, ShoutTrail

do mods go around and close dead posts after people stop posting in them?

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31N5731N
7 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

eish only see they took my email away now.. its..

bnel
@
live.
co.
za

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31N5731N
7 months, 3 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

Hey there my friends, how are you. bin ages since we last spoke.

just to update, since we last spoke i have resigned from the new company and starting at a new place beginin March.

i got ENGAGED in NOV 2007 … YAY… and will be getting married the 1st of May 2008. really looking forward to it.

miss chatin to you on msn.. :(

my email is (email removed)
lets get back in touch…

chat soon

B

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Khalivarsha²
7 months, 4 weeks ago, ShoutTrail

I don’t remember what post you are referrencing, but if I feel that an idea of god is analogous to an idea of santa claus, I have no problem with sharing that idea in a relavant post. I do not specifically insult people on this site, so if you are simply offended at my beliefs about god then you need to realize that not everyone believes the same thing you do and people should feel free to share their religious beliefs without having anyone, moderator or not, try to shove another belief down their throat or shut them up.
I will not be offended if you share your beliefs about god whether I agree with them or not, so grow up and have that same respect for me.

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Xeno Dragon
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

Also, please don’t expect that you’re allowed to tell me what I do or don’t believe simply due to your moderator status. You can be reported to the Admins as easily as anyone else. If it’s not okay when others do it, it’s not okay when you do it. This isn’t your site either, despite your ‘rank’. Don’t let your bit of power go to your head, it’s not attractive, and it will only get you in trouble. I expect an apology for that.

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Xeno Dragon
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

Warning accepted, acknowledged, and filed away.

When did I ever claim to own the site?

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►Shizuko-Sophie◄
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

please look at these two accounts…ip adresses

I think it is a troll.

http://help.com/user/158674
http://help.com/user/157915

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Anthrax
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

No problem. Cheers.

I just don’t get how some people can think that THAT is perfectly normal. It’s annoying… lol

I’m not letting it get to me though. I’m trying out this new thing. Have you seen “the secret”, which is a video that’s circling around the net? It’s about how you can achieve your goals by being totally positive. It’s interesting.

I haven’t watched all of it yet, since I found the people in it to be a bit too overly happy all the time. It annoyed me, but then I thought “the reason why this is annoying me is probably because I myself aren’t like that… and if I was, it probably wouldn’t bother me in the least”. So I’m gonna give it a go.

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mou
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

She’s made comments in no relation to the post (mind you, not that is has a point) about people not being attractive because of there drinking methods. It’s unnecessarily rude, is what I’m trying to get at. The rest of the replies were just joking around.

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忍者™
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

who did I call an idiot, and do you have proof I called them an idiot

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Bacon, God of Gods
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

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Bacon, God of Gods
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

i said in ONE post that jerks and other *ahem* “unmentionable names” use that line. but i didnt actually CALL anyone a name there. and when did i call someone a bi*ch?

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Bacon, God of Gods
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

what 2 posts? i didnt call anyone names!

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忍者™
8 months ago, ShoutTrail

Who did I call a name cause I certainly didn’t call you one

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Ditzy
8 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

hehe sorry - we’ve been beavering away trying to sort things out. We received word back from the Gov saying I needed to do a medical - which Ive had done :) was extremely painful and long and difficult and I had to have lots of injections. Wasnt much fun. Just send back the paperwork today so fingers crossed still.
Blake and I are still going strong :D and still very happy. We’re still trying to eat healthily :S and slowly it is working. No huge arguments either - so all is good. Been a bit home sick - but thats coz of all the docs nuisance.
oooo forgot I hadnt sent you pics yet. I will get on my gmail after this. I can only send a couple coz the file size is huge!
Still cant find a job :( coz Im not a full resident yet. Need to wait on more words back from the gov. Feels like banging our heads against a brick wall at times.
My Mom and Sis are gonna get married (to other guys) in March. Blakes Nan still isnt very well. Im bonding well with his family - we went to a sushi type place where they cook the stuff in front of you - was really awesome.
Not much else to say really :S rats are still healthy :D think we’ve successfully taught them to beg by accident :S but they are still as cute as ever.
Hows you 2? wot ya been up to?

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IngeniousNotCrazy
8 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

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Ditzy
8 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

Morning chickpeas - just swinging by to say hi :D

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Xeno Dragon
8 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

No problem.

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Arnday the Imbroglio
8 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

yes boss!

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Xeno Dragon
8 months, 1 week ago, ShoutTrail

If I deserved it.

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