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• If you don’t want to get married, why is that? posted (4 years, 1 month) ago
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• (1 vote) My girlfriend doesn’t want me to fall in love with her.
  

  I’m gonna make a guess, and since I know so little, I’ll have to assume a lot. SO I’m sorry if this is useless, and unhelpful.
  
  So, now I’m going to pretend I know what I’m talking about.
  It’s possible, whatever it is you did before hurt her too much to want to fall in love with you again. That, even though she agreed to go out with you again, she doesn’t want it get serius, for fear of heartbreak.
  
  - written 4 years, 7 months ago – voted for by merkon

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• when you love someone so much and cant ever see yourself being without them does this mean that the downsides to them you just have to accept it?
  

  Well, at least he tried, that’s a good thing. I wish for you that he would try harder, or even just continue to try.
  - written 3 years ago

• when you love someone so much and cant ever see yourself being without them does this mean that the downsides to them you just have to accept it?
  

  I think it depends on what the flaw is, how much it annoys you, and how much it’s important to them. There are things about myself that I’d be willing to change for someone I loved, and then there are things that feel like integral part of who I am, which I wouldn’t.
  Could you try talking to them about it? If it straight up bothers you, it’s going to be hard to just let it go. If it were me, every time they did it, I’d feel a little resentful.
  Good luck!
  - written 3 years ago

• If you don’t want to get married, why is that?
  

  I wander why quee didn’t want to get married… They just had to go and delete their account like that…
  - written 4 years, 1 month ago

• If you don’t want to get married, why is that?
  

  The question is an inquirery as to why people don’t want to get married. I’ve met drastically different people, who don’t want to, for very different reasons.
  
  I’m not particularly attatched to the idea of something in writing stating that one person will love another for the rest of their lives. The idea that law could control love, to me, just proves the insanity of love. Or something.
  - written 4 years, 1 month ago

• So… I just typed “help” into google and found this web site.
  

  Hypocritically, I think you should tell her. I might understand exactly why you haven’t though. Understand might not be quite the right word, I couldn’t explain it in English, and deffinitly not in any other language, but I think I know the feeling. I think telling her will clear your head, and just be… very good.
  
  I should stop giving advice, I’m too tired. tata and good luck.
  - written 4 years, 1 month ago

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