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just get an idea of vocal melody first, then write the instrumentation and the words should fall into place. that’s how my band do it anyways. good luck and all.

Without wanting to scare you I had exactly the same experience and a week later she was cheating on me with two people! To be honest I think you need to be up front about it. If you leave it you’ll eventually grow apart which isn’t good. Good luck though like!

With respect the last poster your suggestion sounded creepy as hell! Being open and honest is important. If you pull something like that it could seriously backfire.

I reckon go for it. If it goes a bit pear shaped sure you’ll feel pretty awkward for a while but hold your head up and it’ll pass soon enough. All you’ve really gotta do is be nice to her. Just ask her for the time or something and you never know she might have been awkwardly looking at you for a while thinking exactly the same thing. Good luck friend.

If I were you I dunno what I’d do to be honest, probably just walk away but that’s clearly not what you want. If you are gonna make a go of it you don’t have to go to great lengths to make her feel special (ring/song) you’ve just gotta be nice to her. You know polite and modest like. Good luck and stuff anyways.

Now I’m open to other people’s viewpoints but actually shut up! The destination might not be great but it’ll be one hell of a journey!

This is a truly rough situation and I feel bad for you. At the end of the day it sounds bad but there’s not a lot you can do. Stealing him off her is not a good idea as it will make you feel guilty and you’ll then forever be suspicious of him. Really all I can say is all will work out in time. This is terrible advice and I’m sorry but good luck and stay happy =]

Yeah I see that. Opportunity should be grasped firmly with both hands! Thanks for your time. Much appreciated. It’s sometimes just good to get things off your chest and to get perspective from someone unbiased. So cheers! =]

Right now I really want a pint aha. But yeah I get what you mean. I find that my problem is I’ve been searching for a long time to no avail which is frustrating. But then again maybe what I need is to stop searching and to just accept that I’ll know when I know but I find this something that is very difficult to do in all honesty.

Fickle is right! I just feel there is a definate lack of consistency in my life. There is also an empty hole that needs filling but I don’t for the life of me know what with! Ah I dunno, it’ll all pan out eventually I guess.