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• So my girlfriend is now friends with my guy friend . posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  . . give me some advice please!! My girlfriend needed a job, so I introduced her to my friend (who …

• I would really love some advice on this topic – it’s an ongoing issue between me and my girlfriend. posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  Let me first give you some history – there are definitely some trust issues between me and my gir…

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• As a family, my mother my brother and I have gone through a lot in the past, but we always end up stronger.
  

  See if there’s any way that you can raise the money you need to get her teeth fixed — a charity event, a carwash, I don’t know . . . then pay for her teeth to get fixed — that would help make her happier I think . . .
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• ok im 18 years old and i’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months and some odd days.
  

  You need to explain all of this to him and say that you accept the fact that this is some emotional baggage that I’m bringing into the relationship. And I’m sorry about that. But everyone in the world has some issues due to their past life experiences, including you (meaning your boyfriend). If you love me, then you have to accept all the good with all the bad. I’ve been hurt in the past and that damage now manifests itself in the form of difficulty trusting men. And if you truly love me, then you’ll be willing to help me heal from the trauma I experienced in the past. It may be tough for you to do, but slowly I will get better and you would have helped the person you love improve herself.
  
  The best ways that you can help me overcome this is by being patient and understanding with me, and also trying your hardest to be aware and to do the things necessary to make me comfortable with us. For example, if you’re going to be away, try to call aften so that I worry less. Show me — prove to me that I’m wrong in not trusting men.
  
  Or something along those lines. If you put it to him that way and he doesn’t respond favorably, then I say he doesn’t truly love you . . .
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• I need help makeing an informative speech, over an
  

  No worries . . .
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• my post Is there any chances of terminating the pregnency in the early stages of cylcle.
  

  How early are you talking about? Hours, days, weeks, moths?
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• An older woman and a younger man…
  

  Definitely pure selfish immaturity? Come on brother, she called you to tell you something multiple times and you ignored her. That’s just being selfish. Whether you’ve lost interest or not is a different story — not enough info in your post to determine that.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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