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• My muscles ache constantly. posted (3 years, 2 months) ago
  I’m in Cosmetology school, which I put in about 38-40 hours/week. I also work part time at a …

• I need a break.. posted (3 years, 3 months) ago
  I haven’t logged in for a very long time. A lot has been going on in my life.. so this post m…

• This is quite ridiculous. posted (4 years, 3 months) ago
  So, earlier I was having a discussion with my niece ..somehow we got onto the subject of dating/mar…

• Downloading fonts to Windows Vista. posted (4 years, 3 months) ago
  I knew exactly how to do it on Windows XP, but it doesn’t really seem to be working the same.…

• Medical Assistant. posted (4 years, 4 months) ago
  I’m highly considering going to college to become a Medical Assistant. I’ve read up on …

• Small computer problem. posted (4 years, 4 months) ago
  I don’t know what happened, but now certain text on websites is super-small. My mom was the l…

• Two things I wanted to share: posted (4 years, 4 months) ago
  * I hope you all enjoy these as much as I did. :) 21 SUGGESTIONS FOR SUCCESS by H. Jackson Brown,…

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  [quote JoMiMo]Like what? There’s a lot of us here, odds are at least one of us can have some useful advice :)[/quote]
  Exactly, and most likely .. a lot of people here have been through it before.
  
  “Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.”
  
  - written 4 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Green Knight, joelpietersen

• (1 vote) Wrong or Right?
  

  Calm down.
  
  I mean sure.. it’s difficult, but chill out. When I used to be a waitress, I had to deal with tons of people who only spoke Spanish, all the time. Sometimes it was confusing - yes .. but I also thought it was pretty neat.
  
  Don’t hate people just because they aren’t the same as you. Now, I’m not saying you’re completely wrong .. but I DO think you’re overreacting.
  
  I do agree that they should try and learn a least a few things in English, so that it would be easier .. but sometimes it can be hard for people.
  
  I took Spanish in BOTH middle school and HS, and I still can’t catch on. I only know the basics like numbers/colors/months/short phrases ..etc.
  
  [quote]I am even MORE annyoed at the fact that just across the street, a Mexican store has been built! [/quote]
  I don’t understand why that would upset you?
  We have grocery stores here that only sell mexican food, certain gas stations that serve mostly mexican things (spices, chips, etc) ..It doesn’t bother me any.
  
  So, I’m sure it might be a little confusing/frustrating .. but take a chill pill. Smile, try and help them, and **** it, BE POLITE. Just because they may not understand you doesn’t mean they aren’t human.
  
  - written 4 years, 3 months ago – voted for by missyregan

• (1 vote) so i have my sister is getting pretty old now..
  

  [quote ProposedFlower] i even talk to her and said honestly you really needs boyfriend and she always change subject[/quote]
  
  Yes, because her personal life is honestly none of your business.
  
  She probably feels bad enough already, leave her alone about it!
  
  [quote ProposedFlower] ive seen a lots of her boyfriends and they were good..(lawyer,executive chef,business owner etc)[/quote]
  And your point is?
  Just because they had nice jobs doesn’t mean that your sister connected well with them or vice versa. Your occupation doesn’t mean everything. They probably had really sucky personalities.
  
  [quote ProposedFlower]she is pretty afraid of getting marry and having divorce[/quote]
  Well, she’s a smart girl.
  She is looking to find someone who she feels is ‘Mr. Right’ ..someone who she can marry and be with for the rest of her life. (How marriage is SUPPOSE to be.) She isn’t going to just settle for anyone. I like her way of thinking.
  
  Sorry if I sound rude, but just worry about you and your own life. She has hers to worry about.
  
  - written 4 years, 4 months ago – voted for by ProposedFlower

• (1 vote) How do I edit my “location” on help.com?
  

  From what I know, you go to Account Admin and scroll down to the map ..then enter your area.
  
  It isn’t working for me though. :( I’ve tried multiple times.
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by georgebaily

• (1 vote) I NEED TO GET AWAY!
  

  I understand where your mom is coming from, but I do not agree with her.
  She’s trying to protect you from the ‘real world’ but what she fails to realize is that she can’t protect you forever. One day, sooner or later, you’re going to be out of school and looking to find a place of your own, and it’s going to be scary as hell because she has kept you from everything. Sure, she really is being a good mother by trying to protect you, but she can’t protect you from everything. It seems to me that she refuses to accept that just yet, and that’s why she’s smothering you. She needs to let you experience life now, because she is (in a way) ruining your youth. Sit down and have a chat with her.
  
  Don’t yell, don’t scream, don’t accuse.
  
  Politely explain to her how you feel, and also show her that you respect where she is coming from. Ex: “Mom, I am so thankful that you want me to be safe - but please try and understand that I need to learn things on my own. I need to make mistakes so I can grow from them ..and all the while, you can still be there for me.”
  Something along those lines. :) That’s definitely going to be more effective than yelling at her and demanding she needs to let you go to public school. :P
  Hope that helps.
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Chunkymoves

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• My muscles ache constantly.
  

  Actually I’m never on the computer, I never have time when I go to school from 9-5 and work 6-10 or something… I just got online to try and look up what could cause me to be so achy because I can’t deal with it anymore. I’ve done nothing different from my routine and it’s getting worse.. but thanks for the help I guess. I would love to exercise but I can barely move. Literally.
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• My muscles ache constantly.
  

  So what do you suggest I do Michael? Just get more rest? Skip out on seeing the doctor?
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• My muscles ache constantly.
  

  No, the only reason things are less stressful is because my dad is doing a little better, health wise. Also, I got my hours changed at work ..and I’m going in later which allows me to actually sleep in a few hours. 5-10 instead of 8am-4pm on Sun & Monday.
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• My muscles ache constantly.
  

  Well then I honestly guess I’m going to have to wait until May/June. My job is what stresses me out and I won’t be stress free until I graduate from school in May. I feel like I never have a break.
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

• I need a break..
  

  I know being a perfectionist isn’t a good thing necessarily, but I’m not like that about everything. I just need to know how I can fix being so miserable and tired. I have no energy because it’s school, work, school, work .. never a break. It feels like I’m getting nowhere.
  - written 3 years, 3 months ago

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