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• I have strange dreams. posted (1 year) ago
  They are very vivid, feel like they last all night, and I remember every single detail in them from…

• I’m having a rant! posted (1 year) ago
  I’ve had mental problems fro about 10 years. I’ve gone through sessions with councill…

• Does anyone have any advice for me? posted (1 year) ago
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• I’m pregnant.
  

  I very much agree that he does have to know, but only you know wether to tell him before or after. I think if you list up pros and cons the pros for telling him after is more. I’m not taking a side, but it is easier for you, and if you have completely broken up for good and you explain your reasons for the abortion then I’m sure he will understand your decision.
  
  I wish you luck in whatever you do.
  - written 1 year ago

• I am a straight guy moving in with two gay roommates.
  

  Depends on your attitude. Depends on how you come across to people.
  
  You also have to be careful in what you are saying here. You seem to be confusing everyone because you are not saying what you really mean and not creating a good rep for yourself here. Just be open minded and friendly and you shouldn’t need worry Just ignore anyone who wants to make judgements, it’s their loss.
  - written 1 year ago

• So, yes, I have dreams of dying.
  

  Nothing wrong with a fake smile :)
  
  Your mother is not doing you any favours behaving like that. Although I believe there is two sides to every story. If you want to change how you feel then you are going to have to ignore your mother. She was probably like you at her age, and this is her way of releasing her anger. She just wants you to feel as rubbish as she does. Is there maybe anything you two can do together? Why not go for a walk and chat about things.
  
  And, doing sport isn’t about wether you are good at it or not. That is irrelevant. It’s about getting out, doing any exercise, just getting out and about. You’ve made an excuse as to why you are not doing anything about it, ” if I had a great neighbour…” but it’s up to you to make the change. If you continue to blame everything on anything, and continuously making excuses, you will just end up the way you are now forever. I see you want to change. You are still young enough to do something about it. Yes, it will be harder without the support from your mother, but you can get support from friends, or if you want to talk to a psychiatrist that will help too. You can get info from any doctors surgery.
  
  It’s 2.30am here, so it’s about time I’m asleep. I hope I was of some help and good luck in whatever happens. Please don’t give up on your life. It’s your life, and you have the power to create it into anything you want it to be. Sounds mad and maybe hard to believe now. But, anything worth having in life is hard work, but there isn’t anything that can describe how you will feel once you make the change. It won’t happen overnight, but the process will not only may you feel better in the long run, but will make you a stronger person able to take on anything that comes her way ;)
  - written 1 year ago

• I’m pregnant.
  

  That’s why I gave both sides of the situation. That is one view.
  - written 1 year ago

• I’m pregnant.
  

  It may feel wrong not telling him, but because you are no longer a couple it’s about you and your body. What is right for you etc.
  
  But then again, he may feel like he had no say in the matter. Depending on what kind of guy he is he might not even want anything to do with it. It’s a tricky situation that only you can decide if it is right or not for you. I changes from situation to situation. And because I don’t personally know you both it’s hard to make a solid decision for me.
  - written 1 year ago

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