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• How do you work through a hard time in a relationship? posted (21 minutes) ago
  Like youre going through a sort of falling out or something. For the last 3 weeks my friend has be…

• This is hopeless posted (4 months) ago
  i stopped controlling myself around a friend of mine, who i had hoped i had my emotions or somethi…

• I’m concerned about my friend. posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  Shes had a terrible image of herself for a long time, and the past couple weeks shes been anorexic.…

• I need to be more childish posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  I’m too serious and adult about life really. I’m not fun at all, really. Its difficult…

• I have friendship problems that need to be solved now posted (4 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Me and a friend both are tired of our friendship sucking terribly. me and her both want to be frie…

• I wish I could feel like this all the time. posted (4 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Like how I do when I’m around this one particular girl. Everything feels so right, me and her…

• I really need some help posted (5 months, 2 weeks) ago
  A friend of mine and I had a bit of a falling out, basically I really insulted our relationship by …

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Westnoteast's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I had a kind of friend for a few years… I’ve no idea how we first met, but we’d been in touch since we were about 14.
  

  Sounds like you’re in love with her. Perhaps you should warm up a bit for her, if she is pregnant just be there for her. The most you can probably do is that. I can’t tell what ends shes trying to meet by contacting you, but its probably a good idea to stay in contact with her.
  
  - written 8 months ago – voted for by kutdfe

• (1 vote) When did you lose you virginity?
  

  Me? Not yet. I’ll keep it that way until I find (Obtain) the person I’d like to spend the rest of my life with.
  
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago – voted for by -deadinthehead-

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• How do you work through a hard time in a relationship?
  

  But speak with her how? Its really hard for me to not talk about whats wrong between us, since Im usually obsessing about it and shes really really important to me. I end up freaking out and just somberly asking her about it, and she either doesnt answer or snaps.
  - written 4 minutes ago

• i dont know how to say this
  

  i do though, i spend my entire days doing things to occupy me and make me think of other things, but i end up feeling even more insecure in some way because i think its not what i should be doing or something, or then when its time to go to bed no matter how tired i am i lay awake for 5 or 6 hours thinking.
  - written 1 hour, 24 minutes ago

• i dont know how to say this
  

  disgusting and apathetic. i didnt care about anyone or anything and did some ****** up things i dont even want to think about. course i told her about all that too, and she totally accepted it. we’ve told eachother everything. i think i just need a break. the constant obsessive neurotic thought every second of every day until i cant possibly stay awake any more certainly isnt helping anything, im always exhausted emotionally and mentally and physically. i dont even see straight any more. i want a break, but im not giving myself one because i think so poorly of myself. which i think i need to.
  - written 1 hour, 30 minutes ago

• i dont know how to say this
  

  i dont want to think im a great catch, i just dont want to constantly be afraid im going to become what i used to be before i met her, or before our relationship actually got good.
  - written 1 hour, 35 minutes ago

• i dont know how to say this
  

  yeah you’re right. i dont know how to though. that insecurity has been the largest problem between us but ive never been able to control it because im afraid to believe in myself, because i think so negatively about me. i think if she were talking to me again, like forgave me, i might be fine with everything. but instead i keep coming here and making posts because im so lonely and i dont know what to do.
  - written 1 hour, 37 minutes ago

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