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well, ignore him then for now. Switch seats when you can!

switch seats with someone!

Keep him out of your life totally. Not worth your time and energy in my opinion. Far better catches out there!

For starters, drop him as a boyfriend. He does not treat you as well as you deserve.

Every job develops drama in some way. Be the bigger person and show that it doesn’t bother you. It will diffuse quicker.

Say you do not want to be involved.

I will agree with hfhubbard on this one! It is the best way to make something out of a seemingly impossible situation!

friendship involved too?? Definitely stay out of this!!

Honestly, you need to let him make this decision and stay away from him until he does. He is creating a sense of confidence in you and its just not fair to you. Stay away from him until he makes a firm commitment to be just with you and he has no others on the side. It does not sound as though he can be trusted. Just my opinion though. If he is cheating on his girlfriend with you, it just makes matters that much more dangerous for a successful relationship with you.

Tell him to leave you alone until he is free and able to commit to just you. You cannot help him make this decision. Let him do it for himself.

Let them sort out their issues and stay out of it as much as possible.

The reality is, a functional relationship cannot work in your favor at this time. The best chance you have is to establish a strong bond via internet and letters and when the time is right, you will have a strong base to work with.
Communication is the number 1 priority of relationships, so this would be a fantastic way to start!

Procrastination is a trait many people possess. I don’t believe you are trying to fail, just need to learn to prioritize things. It is a tough thing to do, but when you achieve your goals before the due date, the reward of self assurance is amazing.
Write down your goals or work at the beginning of every day and be sure it is somewhere you can always see it. Focus on the task at hand and you will train yourself!

Do they all feel the same way about you?

With technology the way it is, you need not ever lose touch with this girl. Be sure to get her e-mail address before she goes. Tell her how you feel about her and hope you can always remain friends until there is a time when you can be together.

It is a fairly romantic tale indeed!

You should talk about anything but understand one thing, if you can’t enjoy each others company without conversing, you may run into bigger problems in the future.