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• i hate my life,
  

  Contracts with a job, partner relationship, family, etc are only as good as they serve the parties involved. It’s about lessons and getting us to dig down within ourselves and saying, “I am really done with this. I choose to create something different.” And then getting your butt off the couch, close the mouth from complaining, and actually go do something to cause a change.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• i hate my life,
  

  That is the reason why you are in the circumstances at the present. To take action, somehow, and say “You know what, I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired of this BS. I’m going to do something to change the situation.”
  
  Have you ever seen a movie called The Secret? If not, go find a copy and watch it.
  
  Yes, you are connected to your mess. You can either sit a stew about it, or actually go do something to cause a change.
  
  If you believe you are doomed, then a ‘doomed’ experience is what you will continue to create.
  
  You’re on the right track. Go find the movie.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• Wondering why I can’t love any one.
  

  No, you are not sick. One thing that would help you, dear friend, is to improve your diet if it not up to snuff - ie whole foods, holistic. Caffeine and processed sugar will easily create massive mood swings and feelings of being overwhelmed and not able to make decisions.
  
  On a different front, you have the ability to love infinitely, and your pulls toward one sexual gender or another are your way of experiencing both vibrations. You chose it coming into this Life. You are balancing masculine and feminine energy. Believe me, you are not the only one going through this. Hundreds of thousands of men and women are experiencing this very thing you are. Be patient and kind to yourself. Give yourself a break.
  
  You may not be connecting with your friends “Love You” because truly you may not feel a connection. That is an issue of a Heart that wants integrity, truth, and genuine relationships with other humans. You cannot fool the Heart, you can’t give it lip service if it truly doesn’t feel it.
  
  Stop, take a deep breath. Go for a walk. Look up to the sky and ask for Guidance.
  It will come to you in 48 hours about how to go forward with your experiences.
  
  Blessings.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• i hate my life,
  

  I wish I could make your pain go away… but I can’t.
  
  I have been where you are - helplessness.
  
  I learned the hard way. I learned that I was creating it. The mess I saw around me was just a mirror of the struggles and mess I was actually feeling inside.
  
  All the problems, change in partners, job changes, obligations I got myself into, well, the only common denominator was …. me.
  
  It’s all an outer reflection of what I wouldn’t own up to, wouldn’t face within myself.
  
  When I changed (did a garbage run on my self, my identity, my truth), everything on the outside changed.
  
  That is the way it works. Everything on the outside is a projection of what is going on on the inside. Changing the inside, projects a change on the outside.
  
  Try it. It will set you free.
  
  Blessings.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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