cari's reply history at Help.com

okay, i for one think turning to god is no help, not to offend anyone..

but you have so much to live for. all the little things that make you smile now, your family, anyine who loves you, us who are trying to help you.. im sure if you’re going through a rought patch right now, it’ll be over with in time. all you have to do is be strong for yourself. you’ll find love, you’ll meet amazing people, and do some couragous things.. i’ve been through what you’re going through and no one said its fun or easy, but stick it out, you’ll get through with flying colors. look to friends for support especially.. or us =).. dont think you’re worthless.. you were put on this earth for a reason, you have to have something to offer to this world.. something no one can..

[quote seas light]This is your perception only. A distortition of yourself. I’m sure you are not repulsive and you have many great things to offer others in this world. Anti- christ NO!!! :)[/quote]

agreed.. if you repelled people, you wouldnt have friends.. and we wouldnt be trying to help ya out..

why is it such a bad thing at the idea? have you tried talkin to him? youd be suprised as to whether or not he’d like you.

it all depends on the way you put yourself out there for people to talk to..

yes we do..

well there’s your chance to show a difference..i bet all the girls he talks to are flirty with him and touchy touchy? dont flirt, just talk. its key.

when he’s walkin between classes, or any chance he’s alone, just walk right up to him. dont be afraid to be yourself.. or even just “bumping” into him is ok if you know how to play it off.. but i’d say just walk up, say hey ___________, haven’t talked to you in a while, how you been? confidence is also important.

but ive talked to guys who think its attractive when a girl will go up to him when he’s with his friends and talk to him..but if thats way out of your comfort zone, dont do it..

im with kemmy, do you think you’ll keep up with what they did at the clinic? or will you go back to not eating?

wow..thats amazingly thin.. is great that you toughed it out in that clinic, but do you feel like you’re, not to hurt feelings, but fat because you gained weight?

and dont be afraid to go up to him and just start a conversation, just dont automatically ask the sports question. start with something like, hey how you been, what’s up? how are you?.. and then go from there when asks you the same. or about his day, any plans of his, or yours too.. dont be afraid to put your 2 cents in..

and if you really want to talk about his interests, of corse ask about sports. which is his fave? and then when he says his fave, then you ask why? or where he’s best played at (position).. ask about best game. worst game..all that good stuff..let him talk while you listen and get to know him that much more..

well i’ve never been the kind of girl to flirt. you can bat your eyelashes and blow kisses all you want. but thats either going to get you one of two things.. either he’ll miss it, cuz boys are dumb, or he’ll think you’re messin around..

i say just get the courage to get to know him. talk to him more often, talk about the things you both like.. make talkin to him fun.. be yourself, and thats the best way to get a guy who you really want. but do not lie about yourself to make yourself seem better.. its never a good option.

well i guess i kinda get what you’re saying, but i never intended to offend anyone. i just plain hate history..and thats it.. i apologized, and i never meant to hurt anyone.. and im especially sorry toward joy..

[quote Xeno Dragon]I don’t own a TV…[/quote]

ha thats right, well i guess its a good thing you dont own a tv..because you’d probably go nuts with all the hanna montant crap on there..

well then let me say this, im sorry to who every i offended in saying that i hated history.. but i still dont see how im being ignorant. we all have our own opinions. i love math, so whether or not someone said they hated it and ANY reason why, i see no need to get mad and say its ignorance..

why is there automatically something wrong with saying that someone hated history anyway?

[quote Urine Sane]uhh, you do realise you just agreed that youre stupid right cari?and not all americans actually, im living there at the moment and know quite a few intelligent ones. its justa shame that some give off the wrong impression.[/quote]

well i may have unknowingly agreed with you..lol.. but all im saying is i hated history.. and thats that..

and im so sorry for gettin off topic joy..DaNi♠HaTes♠You..is right.. i try not to..lol but it happens..