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• All I ever wanted was honesty… Yesterday I found out my fiance has been cheating on me, or well, I had suspected that something was going on earlier, posted (1 year) ago
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• (1 vote) It hurts…
  

  aww thank you :’)
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by lynnypoo

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• I want to dye my hair pink
  

  Why not? When I was younger I dyed one of my best friend’s hair bright pink.. twice! She was blonde to begin with though. It looked awesome on her! The problem I can see is that if you have black hair you will need to bleach it, and knowing that black hair bleached tend to get orange (I went from dark black to platina blonde in … not a very long time and completely destroyed my hair…)
  
  If your hair isn’t dyed several times to begin with there might not be a problem bleaching it, but you might have to bleach it at least twice before you can get to a level where dying it pink is even possible without looking weird, and you shouldn’t bleach your hair too often (it’ll get the same consistency as chewing gum, trust me, I’ve tried, it’s NO fun) so you might look weird for a while being half blonde before you can bleach it again. If I were you I’d go to a hairdresser and ask. They might be better at judging how your hair is and how much it can tolerate.
  - written 12 months ago

• Are there any good people on this planet?
  

  There are good people out there. There are a lot of not so nice people as well, but trust me, there are some good ones. Lately I’ve met many of them, and I’m sure you will too. They tend to show up when you least expect them.
  
  Depression and loneliness are two horrible states of mind, and it’s impossible for me to just say “cheer up”. I know what it’s like, I know how hard it is. Just remember that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You can’t control how others treat you, but you can definitely choose whether or not you let it get to you.
  - written 1 year ago

• It hurts…
  

  You’re making me cry now… I’m going to save those words and look at them every day… thank you so much…
  - written 1 year ago

• It hurts…
  

  aww thank you :’)
  - written 1 year ago

• It hurts…
  

  I wish I could leave, but I can’t. Not for a few more weeks… and I don’t want to die, I really don’t. I just wish things would be easier, cause right now I’m breaking down completely a couple of times a day, and even though I know I have to fight through this it’s still very hard. I wish I had someone to hug…
  
  Thank you all for the wonderful support… I haven’t heard this many kind words in a long time and I really needed it…
  - written 1 year ago

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