Yuniko's reply history at Help.com

[quote Grim_Hardcastle]I wish i had a girl…[/quote]

Sadly, x2. LOL.

I wish I didn’t make some of the mistakes in the past.
I wish I had more friends… True friends.
I wish I was happy.

I wish the world was different…

Too many wishes?

[quote lezine]It can be helpful to find missing people. If I had children that disappeared I would like to know where she/he was as soon as possible[/quote]

And when when children grow up, will chips be removed?

Also, there is some doubt about monitoring people (even children) 24/7 being compliant with our freedoms…

If you mean RFID chips, I am totally against it.

Don’t get me wrong, I think the primary idea is a good one, but like most things the concept will most definitively roll off to the wrong hands.

I don’t like the idea of being monitored or worst. One slip and there goes our freedom… (Not that we are truly free)

[quote vivzofwale]i’m not sure but.. sometimes you really can’t. just show him that you’re there and you’re willing to wait as long as he needs to. eventually he will open up. :)[/quote]

Being such a person, I agree totaly with vivzofwale. There are people you can’t force to open up, and doing it can cause him to close even more and get defensive.

However, letting him know you are there for him can be a great help. He will probably open up when he is confortable enough and ready.

I understand Srinh, the little you wrote still shows good understanding and intelligence. Thank you!

[quote blackrose]why don’t you just join Gmail too?[/quote]

For what I understood, he is in Gmail. His family is not…

Unfortunaly I have no answer for that, as it never happenned to me.

[quote fedup09]Men are pigs, what can I say. Please don’t be tempted into getting involved with a married man. It will hurt way too many people. The right man will come along in due time.[/quote]

Thanks for putting all of us in the same bag..

Study hard, work hard, and be the best in something.
That should do.

Oh, you said easy…

Srinh, that’s an easy one.

Like deciding to get in bed with every other guy she met, that making something like 2 per month, without even knowing one of the for more than that time. Like starting a new relationship, but still telling every single night her ex she loved him (I guess her hobbie was to mess me up? Maybe it was not a change, only a common thing that I had not know yet). Like starting as a true honest woman, ending in a lying child that told everyone I used to hit her (omg, never laid one hand on her). That kind of things…

Did wonders for me though. At least I discovered I could still live beyond stabbing after stabbing, when I thought I could not handle more cr*p in life. It took me some more years of various misfortunes till I broke down, but hey, I’m coming back again to life!

They shouldn’t be. But neither love and respect.

If your afraid of your partner finding out, then you know he/her wouldn’t be happy with it… Doing it knowing your partner wouldn’t like it, well, you know what I mean.

Would you be okay with your partner having an affair in your back?

The fact that you are thinking about the chances of surviving an affair is something you should give a thought about. Afterall, theoretically you love your husband/wife, and in that case an affair should never be an option…

Did you have an affair?

You should be considered innocent till proof of the opposite.

Since that didn’t happen… Give some time for things to calm down, and while you wait, try to find out what really happened and how you can prove it.

It is not very helpfull, I know, but I think it is worth the try. Not that there are many options…

It’s hard to understand completely something if we have never been through it. But I dated people who changed completely, in ways I almost completely abominate.

It’s hard, but people change. But we shouldn’t judge someone without knowing her version of the story, so I guess you are condemned to be haunted by “why this happenned”, or find out a way to ask her. The second one, gives value to the sentence “innocent till proven guilty”.

I still think you should definitively put it on the table and see what she says about it, but not confronting her directly. Just acting like you were just concerned about her privacy. She would have to explain it…

But it’s true, it’s a pretty hard situation… I would surely freak out and by now, would be probably arguing with her not giving her the chance to tell her side of the story. (Please don’t do that)

I have no clue, but you don’t have much choice, do you?

If only you could get your gf on that board for some reason… Maybe also you could get to go to the specific place where the picture is shown…

Otherwise, you are screwed. Then you shoud probably follow Srinh’s idea.