tonyNZ's reply history at Help.com

i feel for you man shes got quite a hold on you. hopefully u can find a way to let go completely

i know how you feel and it’s hard, everything seems like crap and you feel so isolated and lonely.its like noone understands you and it feels like noone cares. It’s hard and there’s no one solution to fix the problem.life’s hard and knocks you round like a boxing match.but like jayde said you just got to start off small and see one thing positive in your life and work from there.its about changing your focus from negativity to positivity. the more you think about the negative stuff the more you dig the hole deeper. but we all know it’s alot easier said than done.

Im a 20year old male and from my perspective through my number of relationships including being engaged, from a young person’s perspectives having a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship at our age is quite serious in ways and can be really emotional. I’d say that after spending a night with someone it’s pretty natural to have more desire for that person and it makes you feel connected, thus giving you more attatchment. If you like the guy why not make it clear because alot of the time girl’s hold on the backfoot in terms of instigating a relationship in my opinion and there’s no need to. You don’t know he might feel the exact same as you.