That really all depends how honest everyone is being. And not only to the other person, but to themselves. For example… do you desire to just hang with your ex… ORRRR do you still have deep unsettled feelings and you long to feel something… ANYTHING that may be close to those past feelings. If it’s the later I’d give yourself more time. If you are certain you are over her, and just want to hang… cool :) NOW… if SHE is playing games and it turns out she has some deep unsettled feelings … for example she trys to hold your hand… get up and walk out right there. You do not play games with feeling / emotions. She did you wrong enough my friend… she shouldn’t be playing (and you should let her) games. But if you can be friends after a break up… that can be pretty cool.
I think to ponder such things is too soon. For now you have to get past it all. Sure anything is possible. If my first girlfriend were to come back into my life today I know things are very different with ME, so it might work better. I think in this instance it would not be true. You’ve given her 2 chances if I remember right, and she took the opportunity to betray you both times. That’s not a good track record.
lock,if she can go with someone else the same day you broke up!
then thats bad news!!!
you need to find another gf wholl respect you
&love you no matter what
dont do this to yourself
you dont need her,you need the balls to move on :)
Well, I guess that would depend on the reasons for the breakup and if you feel a sincere change took place in her. Why Do you feel she may want you to take her back? People can change, and see the error of their ways.Yes, I do believe that if it’s meant to be, they will return, but hopefully for all the right reasons, and not for a conveinence. You need to be sure you can forgive 100% if she does, and never throw up in her face her past mistake. Could you do that?
I’m happy to help where I can Lock… just shout me here, or if you want more privacy you can email me at richhills1 @ sbcglobal .net (no spaces of course)
hey angie i was wondering if you can give me some advice i couldnt get to you yesturday but its about my relationship with my ex im really confused about whats going on