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Sounds shallow but all I really want is a catwalk model body and loads and loads of money.

Stretch marks are not from you stretching in dance, some people just get them
Have you grown a lot recently? Gained weight? Sometimes these make them occur.
Bio oil can help reduce the appearance of them

http://www.bio-oil.com/en/stretch_mar…

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With you on that one.

Did that happen to you?

Just stay cool, don’t argue with them, show them you’re an innocent person who made a stupid mistake and that you won’t do it again. Should work out fine.

Yeah, I’d stick to that quote, it’s pretty good. I think you can be in love at any age, but sometimes when you’re young it’s easy to mistake lust/infatuation/crushes for love.

[quote littlenick]If they have to use three cameras with wide lenses at the same time to take your picture, one for the right side of you, another one for the middle of you, and the third one for the left of you, then you are fat![/quote]

littlenick, people are politely ignoring your rubbish attempts at jokes but it’s really getting quite annoying now.

[quote C. S.]That’s a good description. :P Bella, I really like that.

Honestly- People are telling me I look good, and I am not at all “fat”… but I still feel un-naturally big. :P My body is showing it too- I’m still loosing fat like crazy without controlling my diet/fitness.

I just feel like I should be able to See where that point would be before I get there. That someone else should be able to tell me.

Yet I know that I have a friend who is 5′7″ and a size 12-16, and she is perfectly beautiful/curvy. (about my size, but with a smaller waist and bigger butt) Yet my friend who is 5′4″ starts looking fat at a size 6… just because that is how her body is.

So, hence my delusional beginning to this post.[/quote]

I know what you mean, I have a friend who can put on loads of weight and still come across as looking slim, I think it’s because she has quite long legs and her weight tends to go to her tummy which is easier to hide. Whereas with me, it all goes to my hips, my thighs and my face, plus I’m quite short so it shows straight away. Like PheeGee said, it’s all about proportions. Thats what makes the most difference.

[quote C. S.]That I also agree with. :P

My friend above has an itty bitty waist… she looks Barbie-like curvy… I on the other hand have perfect legs and lower body- but my stomach is one of my bigger parts (Hence the size 14. :( ) I’m not always thrilled with my proportions, but it helps hide my size. I always look smaller than I actually am.[/quote]

You’ve been blessed with good legs so definitely work that to your advantage. Wear baggier tops and tighter trousers, and now you’ve lost weight and become a healthy size, you need to stop working on your body and start working on your self-esteem so that you feel better about yourself. Size 14 is not “plus size” unless it makes you feel that way. So started building your body confidence up.

It just depends what you’re comfortable at, as long as you’re not putting your health at risk then feeling “plus size” just occurs whenever you feel like you shouldn’t naturally be that size.

I went through a phase when I thought getting to over six and a half stone was “plus size”, but now I have a healthier relationship with food, I’m a size eight and I feel slim and happier. It just depends.

That’s actually pretty good. Poetic, but not too self-indulgent. I liked it.

How accurate. Congratulations, I hope it makes you feel more of a man to drive sixteen year old girls deeper into a state of complete despair. How can you feel like you know me, and can assess my personality when we’ve never even met? In person, people often feel I have too much of a sense of humor as I don’t take anything seriously and seem to treat life like a joke, which is why I come on here, because this website is a place where I can show my more serious, vulnerable side without feeling like I’m going to be attacked for it. Your comments are completely undermining that so well done.
Frankly, f**k you. I can’t be bothered with grown men whose self-esteem is so low they feel the need to find a problem with teenage girls they have never met, and create internet tensions. I hope one day you can accept yourself or something.

Why is that exactly?

Take a pregnancy test.

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