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eh just let it happen it will. looking actively can work but dont be a stalker.

obvious trollllllllllllllllllllllllll

I like it. Well done.

[quote luvfaq]One reason for his silence is that he may not be all that into you. The feelings may not be mutual. Women sometimes have a hard time accepting that fact. They go round and round in their heads about all the details about how “get him interested”, when really he’s already decided and is already “telling you” by not responding in kind. I’m not saying this is definitely your case, but perhaps an angle you should consider first.

One way to figure out if this is your situation is to lay off him. Stop reaching out. Let him initiate that emotional connection. If he pursues you, he’s interested in something about you (you figure out what). If all you hear are the crickets chirping, you have your answer. Take your fine self out to dinner and rock some one else’s world. He ain’t worth your time and effort if he’s not going to break his neck to sweep you off your feet. Can you smell what I’m stepping in???

Respond with the value you believe you deserve from him. And girl, you are special. Never let anyone ever treat you less than that.[/quote]

I’m a guy, but this is a good post.

fantastic post, thanks help people for making my life a little better.

wasnt this like a year ago? sorry for the over reaction btw..must have been having a bad day or something haha

thanks guys all of this is really helpful, I think I will try to take pride in studying and try to set a time each day for me to study.

hmmm now thats something ive never heard before.

eh, failure is a part of life. learn from it.

wow….

that could work. as long as he’s not married. oh and try to be a little forward cause he will hesitate to flirt with you or ask you out.

cant help ya there.

well it usually isnt that hard for a 24 year old to get a mans attention. sorry to say it but if you arent good looking its probably going to be tough.

[quote Blest][quote Abstract??]
you dont plan on at least boning someone who could potentially be your wife? what if the sex isnt good…that would suck.[/quote]

The great thing about two virgins getting married to each other, is that neither one has anybody to “compare” it with. When you are on your honeymoon, you could both be horrible at sex, and think it was the greatest thing ever. And as the marriage grows and matures, you learn and grow in the bedroom as well. So, even though you might start out as duds in the sack, you could be rockstars by the 10th aniversary.

Also, if sex is a deciding factor of a relationship, it’s doomed to fail. If the relationship is built entirely without sex in the equation, sex can only enhance the relationship. If sex is part of the relationship’s foundation, when somebody’s sex drive diminishes, so does the relationship.

Shallow relationships are built on sex and romance. And shallow relationships don’t need much incentive to end.[/quote]

well put, I will think on this you may have actually changed my mind on this

if you are over 20, yeah. but think about 20 years down the road. you’ll be babysitting an old man.