People who suffer from depression create goals that are too large for them to succeed at in the amount of time they give themselves. Most depressive people want things to happen as they deem it too. They can’t seem to do the most important part and that is plan. They can’t stick to anything for any length of time but, lack the resources to come clean about it.
Be honest with yourself and help will come and your life can straighten out for the better. The longer you try to hide the fact that you don’t care about what happens the more things are going to get worse for you. Life and living is rewarded by continuous action.
You need help and support. You should talk to someone who can help you develop healthy guidelines and tools for governing your life so that it is rewarding to you.
Life is precious and you can find joy.
- written 4 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by trekkie, Norah
People/friends are going to have problems and also things do happen. It’s unfortunate that your friend was raped.
I don’t necessarily agree with your Dad but I am sure he has a good reason for what he said. Friends need each other in times like this when disaster happens. They need someone to stick by them and help them through.
You shouldn’t blame yourself for not being there. You can’t be in all the places that your friends go too. I hope your friend will go to the police and tell them what happened.
I would stay in touch with your friends and be as much of a help as I can being careful not to try to take too much on myself.
You sound like a very caring friend and as you go through life you will find that more and more people have problems/issues and bad things will happen to them. It’s called life.
- written 4 days, 3 hours ago – voted for by M.y.a
You can’t put your life on hold because of what a friend whats for you. You have to find your own way. Friends mean well but, it’s your happiness in the end that should matter most. Don’t live the way people want you too, live the way you want too.
There is one question, does he deserve to have a girlfriend? I mean have you investigated why they broke up in the first place? Maybe there is lot more there than meets the eye.
- written 6 days, 21 hours ago – voted for by SingerInPurple
I side with those who really want to know what you want help with? You have pretty much made up your mind and there appears to be nothing a person can say that will encourage you to make a more indepth informative choice. If you argue with that, than that further proves you had your mind made up.
Since the beginning of this forum you have contested the majority of these members unless they perform in such a way as to be suitable to you. Life is filled with millions of people with opinions and advice and if we start eliminating them on the pretext of what they have to say…we will surely invite a big confrontation.
There is also something so controlling by this particular author. For some people it’s better to try to control folks, rather than address their own needs and lack of commitment, respect and feelings for others.
Is there at least one person in your circle of friends and family that you trust? They could help do research about the new vaccine. It would certainly make much more sense then coming to an open forum and telling people to leave.
I think you should edit your request for help so that people can address the real issue and not be invited to be manipulated to your will.
- written 3 weeks, 3 days ago – voted for by mumstheword
Give her some time too. She is probably taking the time to decide if you are the right one. I would like that about her…because than I know that she is the right kind of girl.
- written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by benhunt2
Raver is right as well. The sooner you start the better. Putting if off just allows the brain to want it more and more. - written 15 hours, 15 minutes ago
You have such an intelligent, beautiful mind. You are so strong and powerful. You can do anything you want to do. You can get through this by not thinking what could of been but what can be!
Don’t waste anymore time. Max is right.
I believe you need a manager that can help you psychologically as well. Ray from “Everybody Loves Raymond” has been in therapy forever. He says he will always need it. So it’s no big deal to go and get the support you need. You can’t do it alone, it never works out.
If you have read about Charlie Sheen and Martin Sheen they went through a lot of recovery episodes together and now Charlie has a great show on TV.
You are destine for greatest, you can couquer yourself. - written 1 day, 4 hours ago