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• So he’s back to being in full alcoholic mode again. posted (1 week, 1 day) ago
  Those of you that know me from a couple of years ago on here will know I used to post all the time a…

• Game number 3…America vs UK ! posted (2 weeks) ago
  !! Ok so I don’t know how successful this one would be, but I love playing this with some of …

• why am I such an uninteresting person? posted (2 weeks, 1 day) ago
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• Game number 2 from Raver! posted (1 month) ago
  Ok, so here’s whatcha do… 1. Name one thing you have done on help.com that you are pr…

• Experiment! posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  Ok, so I notice we have a fair amount of “Pray and your problems will go away” people …

• Its Godfathers birthday! posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  Time to celebrate! If possible I would like to ask that you could say something really nice about …

• A help.com game! posted (1 month, 3 weeks) ago
  Ok so there are hundreds of these out there but I wanted to have some fun! So… What you have…

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♥Rαvєr♥'s Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I need serious help, please, I was taking oxycontin
  

  dood I have been on so many tablets as strong as that its unreal. The come down is awful.
  
  What worked for me, Is I made a 2 lists. A “work” list and a “home” list. Basically its LOADS of distractions, which is what you need right now.
  
  For example, my “work” list had little things on like go and make a cup of tea for everyone, go for a walk to the photo copier (it was ages away). Email a friend, find a funny picture and email it to someone.
  
  My “home” list had stuff on like, take a cold shower, have a relaxing bath, put my ipod on, watch tv.
  
  You need to be constantly distracted, as for the physical side - try and eat stuff thats really good for you - eat loads of fruit and veg, even if you think your overeating. It does help! Its like comfort food, however you really need the nutrition you can get from this food. Drink loads of water and fruit juices too and snack on yummy things with a decent amount of sugar in, like chocolate! Chocolate will also release the endorphins into your body to make you feel happier.
  
  Stay away from booze and **** and even though your eating loads try to eat as healthily as you can. You’ll get through this and soon :)
  
  Oh and of course the most obvious point! Come on help.com often and use the www.help.com/chat - chat room!!
  
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago – voted for by Luck of the Irish

• (1 vote) I’m sorry, I know none of you probably know me, but I am going to leave this site for good.
  

  No idea who you are but you obviously haven’t met the best of us.
  
  There are what… about 100 or more regulars that come here all the time and we are all happy.
  
  Obviously this isn’t the kind of happiness you need! Good luck.
  
  - written 2 weeks, 5 days ago – voted for by MortallyWounded

• (1 vote) misguided help to suicide kids ?
  

  [quote Anonymous]”…As for the God people, ignore them, we attract a few of those on this site who feel the need to force religion onto people - which is wrong and against the terms of use here. If you see someone do that - DO NOT REPLY. Just report them using the red flag..”
  
  Why does everything alway have to come down to religion. If I give my religions opionion, how is that ‘forcing it onto people’. Which ‘rule’ am I breaking..I must have missed it. For example…If I said this post calls for us to remember “..The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? (Jer. 17:9) Implying that it’s not easy to tell who is sincerely trying to committ suicide and who is sincerely trying to help. Quoting that verse would just be my opionion…how am I forcing it on anyone any more than anything they would advice me? I don’t understand? Dispite popular belief, its not enherent in Christianity to try to convert everyone they meet. If People want to be athiest, Budist Islamic, or whatever…thats their buisness. “…have a good trip….” (Arnold Murry)(just his opionion)[/quote]
  
  Specifically here:
  http://help.com/faq#sect19
  
  May I point out “Limit suggesting religious solutions for problems to only posts where the original writer of a question has indicated an openness to discussing spirituality.”
  
  A lot of people have been banned for the nature of their religious replies. Religion can be discussed or suggested without being rude and patronising.
  
  However your example isn’t forcing religion in my opinion. There are people on here who say, “You wanting to commit suicide is the devil living inside you. Only if you turn to God can you be free” and yadayada yada… Can you see how my example would not be right? There is nothing wrong with religion, or lack of religion. Just forcing relgion onto people is wrong and not allowed. As above.
  
  If you have anymore questions I would recommend contacting a Mod, the few I know is:
  
  http://help.com/user/25381-candp/shoutbox
  http://help.com/user/53289-ditzy/shoutbox
  
  Or a general link: http://help.com/contact
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by courtybubble

• (1 vote) I just got my fifth part time job, but is that too many?
  

  “In youth we learn; in age we understand.”
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by Fuzzy Pepper

• (1 vote) I think I found out the reason why some ppl cut themselves because I done it myself.
  

  I used to think that when I was younger. Now nearly 10 years later I’m trying to make something of myself, have a good career and meet people - and I have big scars on my wrist where i’ve clearly self harmed.
  
  I can tell you know, you may think it helps - but get another way quickly because you will not be depressed forever, depression is temporary. You will regret cutting yourself as a release in later life.
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by foggy morning

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• It’s Shie’s birthday and she loves a laugh so post a joke or one-liner here!
  

  Hallooww lady ;)
  
  Be thankful we’re not getting all the government we’re paying for.
  
  and
  
  I don’t care what is written about me as long as it isn’t true.
  
  and
  
  now i gotta go to work :( I will try to think of more funnies later! Love ya happy birthday! x
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

• Game number 3…America vs UK !
  

  Nor do I, I was just saying ;P I just read my comment actually.. I didn’t mean it to sound serious it was meant to be playful. Well it sounded nicer in my head anyway! Thats the trouble with t’internet!
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

• What does the Thanksgiving holiday mean to you?
  

  *Raises eyebrow*
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

• Ask me any question…
  

  [quote J.N Location unknown]Not sure if it will help him or change him, but it will certainly make you feel better.
  I find it very usefull to use large (sometimes splintery) stick’s to get my point accross, they don’t seem to be able to pay attention otherwise.[/quote]
  
  lawl ;)
  
  Chevy - was my question so unreasonable?
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

• Game number 3…America vs UK !
  

  Chilax! Twod gave us a comment with facts, and is now giving his opinion or “own words”. So you still got the best of both worlds mz.mo. I think its great to have enough different types of comments from everyone. It shows their personality.
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

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