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• could we really be happy? posted (4 years, 5 months) ago
  how do i know when im married to a liar when his lies stop and he starts telling the truth? is the…

• i always seem to lose control posted (4 years, 5 months) ago
  i am dealing with something incredibly difficult. i am trying to overcome the sadness, hurt, and an…

• lies from the beginning posted (4 years, 6 months) ago
  what do i do when the relationship was built on a foundation of lies… but i can’t seem …

• my take on gays and the “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” policy posted (4 years, 6 months) ago
  i have no problem with gays… i have a lot of friends who are actually Bi or homosexual……

• who agrees? posted (4 years, 6 months) ago
  disagrees? why? i believe YOU are responsible for your own happiness. only you can dictate and de…

• what do i do? posted (4 years, 6 months) ago
  i recently found out my husband cheated on me. i am working through that with various forms of cou…

• she just won’t leave us alone…. posted (4 years, 6 months) ago
  my husband’s ex-wife will NOT leave us alone. she is obcessed with us and our life and what t…

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• could we really be happy?
  

  thats part of the problem. he knows i have had a history of getting my heart broken by cheaters and manipulators… so why would he do it? all the other times i said “bye” but he is the only one that has been my husband, the rest were easy to let go of and move on
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago

• WHY?
  

  not everyone on here are jerks… i have encountered some really interesting, insightful, HELPful people… i think its a matter of whose on at the time or the topics that are posted. its the nature of the game. some good some bad.. but i will help in whatever ways i can, lol=)
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago

• could we really be happy?
  

  so do i give up? how do i know if he really CAN change?
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago

• i always seem to lose control
  

  its all over my husband… and his infidelity. and we have both decided to get him serious therapy and see if we can work things out. this also involves me working on my anger and disrespect toward him over what happened… but it always overtakes me and i seem to be drifting further and further away from him… if time is what i need… i am fearful that it is the same time that will cause me to cut loose altogether
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago

• Are there any good people on this planet?
  

  not everyone is rude and inconsiderate, and many many many of us do know what your going through. its a matter of many factors. your surroundings, YOU, the way you allow yourself to view life. we all have your points of sadness and depression - thats when Murphy’s law kicks in where anything and EVERYTHING will go wrong at once if its at all possible. its up to YOU and only you to control your life, take charge of it, make the most of what you have and try your hardest to make the best of what you get.
  - written 4 years, 6 months ago

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