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• I want to break up with my boyfriend, but my situation is kind of complicated. posted (1 year) ago
  I want to tell my boyfriend that I don’t feel the same anymore for so many reasons. We’…

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• Things havent been going well for the past one year.
  

  Don’t just sit and wait for a miracle to happen… do something for YOU!! keep yourself busy, try to talk to friends more, so they can keep your mind off of what bothers you, as well as going out, maybe just to take a walk or to do fun stuff but you have to start doing something for you, don’t just expect something to happen out of nowhere… Try take more care of you if your not doing it already, I’m saying like do your nails, dress pretty every time you go out, play with your hair doing something different to it, do your make up more often.. I am not sure of what you usually do but some of this stuff could help. Read a book or magazines… just look for different stuff that you don’t do often. If you keep your mind out of “what troubles you” you can then after concentrate on your school material to study and hopefully pass.
  - written 1 year ago

• The older I become, the shorter my relationships end.
  

  just stay single for a while until you feel that its really time for you to be in a relationship but don’t be jumping around like that. Enjoy being single, if you want to make out with someone just do it and have fun, go out, explore new stuff but don’t get serious with nobody until you get to know that person enough to decide if he could be a good guy for you.
  - written 1 year ago

• if someone is in a relationship and they are taken
  

  If you are over 16 your parents can’t hold you back if you don’t want to be with them. But I have heard from many ppl even on the TV that when you are 16 you can pretty much make your own decisions of where you want to be or go as long as you have a place. I actually know someone who is 16 and on her own (at a friends house) but nobody can do anything to stop her because of her age and she lives in Connecticut. (I guess it depends on the laws from the state you live in). Hope this helps…
  - written 1 year ago

• I trying to get over my ex.
  

  I am probably not the best person to tell you what to do. I have never been cheated on or have never cheated on somebody, but I do know that when you loose respect in a relationship, it could be violence or been cheated on more than once, the relationship will never be the same, it just has no value at all… trust he will never stop because you forgave him a few times already he will think that you will do the same each time so he feels like he can do whatever he wants because you will always forgive him. Think about you, there are guys who truly can respect you as a woman and respect your feelings and you shouldn’t be taking all that bull crap from him, he does not deserve you. You deserve better than that… we all do.
  - written 1 year ago

• I have a question!
  

  It actually sounds so like me!!! The difference is that your boyfriend works and makes money… mines doesn’t. But from the little things you said I will run!! as quick as I can because If he has the way to help you and he still does nothing about it… I will call it OVER. Seriously I think he does not care about you if he acts like that. Think of you, your kids and go ahead make a change if you have to and if you have the courage to end it. Just do it. Good luck
  - written 1 year ago

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