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• My accident claim is finally going to arbitration! posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  And I’m glad! It’s been 4 long months since the accident happened and I’m so rea…

• Things are starting to get better, but I can never get my hopes up. posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  The last 3 years have been, more or less, a mess. Legal problems, horrible neighbors, husband losin…

• I was in a car accident yesterday. posted (6 months, 2 weeks) ago
  This had been a rough year, hence me not being on here as often, and just got 10x rougher when I go…

• Maybe I need to leave… posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Things are too stressful here. We were suppose to leave Germany in May, however thanks to a psychot…

• Maybe it’s just me. posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  People seem to want to make plans with me, then I’m constantly blown off. I’ve tried to…

• OK, so we’re moving… posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  We’ve been shown 2 possible apartments off-post and both have pros and cons but I want your g…

• Finally - a happy post! posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  After so many stresses this year, after so much aggrivation, I still find myself standing strongly…

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Jackie O!'s Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) I’m ready for all the secrifice!
  

  That’s still nowhere near suicide-worthy. People will say what they’re going to say, you just have to be stronger than that and not let them get to you.
  
  I personally believe you need to sort out everything else in your life and have some stability before you think about trying for a baby. You should want your child to be in a non-hostile situation with your future in-laws and for you to be in a better place mentally and physically. Like I keep saying, you are still VERY young and have plenty of time before you need to worry about not being able to have children. Trust me, when the stress is gone it will have been worth the wait!
  
  Keep hanging in there!
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by ~❤♡❤~, babacup

• (2 votes) is it really that a Labrador puppie,cant stay with a Pekingese?
  

  It depends on the dogs’ personalities and how they have been raised, I think. For example, if one dog has been through rough times and isn’t as playful and likes to sleep and it encounters a happy, playful dog that won’t let it take naps or relax - there could be issues. Again, it’s all about the dogs’ personalities and how they interact with other dogs.
  
  Based on what I know about you and your situation I would say not to adopt another pup right now - you already have an adorable little dog who is just getting settled into your home who needs your attention right now. You’re doing a great job raising Chilly and making him comfortable in your home, just keep it up! :D
  
  - written 2 years, 1 month ago – voted for by ℓινιηg4уσυ, ℓινιηg4уσυ

• (2 votes) Friend or foe?
  

  If you hover over the right side of one of their posts after you log into facebook, an “x” should appear. Click it, and it gives you an option to not see their posts unless you go to their profile page, but it keeps them as your friend.
  
  Works for when you’ve got dramatic in-laws, too. ;)
  
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago – voted for by Chunkymoves, sgltrvl

• (2 votes) i have a confession.
  

  Hold on. You’re upset because you wear a bra…with pads in them. And you’re a girl. Really? You have nothing else to worry about right now?
  
  Must be nice…
  
  Anyway, getting back to your post - wearing a bra with pads when you have a smaller chest size or when you want something extra up there for show is NORMAL. My sister STILL does that and she’s almost 24! If it gives you more confidence, great. It’s an appearance enhancer, like make-up and hair extensions. Sometimes we know they’re fake, but people who want to get to know you won’t care. I personally believe it’s not what a person wears that makes them “fake” or not, it’s their personality. So relax…it’s no big deal. You do what you gotta do. :P
  
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago – voted for by ❤Phoenix Reins❤, Aries

• (2 votes) Omg I’m totally gonna kill myself!
  

  This post was written in bad taste. When did it become cool to joke about suicide on a help site where lots of real suicidal posts are written everyday? Grow up and find something better to do. No wonder it was written anonymously - I’d be embarrassed of this crap, too.
  
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago – voted for by Igkn, clozy101❀

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• Will I ever stop missing my ex gf?
  

  Yes, you will stop missing her. It just takes time. Keep yourself busy, be social, and do what you like to do and one day you’ll realize you haven’t thought of her in weeks. :)
  - written 2 days, 14 hours ago

• Hi, I’m a 30 something year old male.
  

  I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve gone through. Is she on medication for any conditions? Her behavior could be caused by a medical or mental condition, but that’s still no reason to hurt you like that. She is responsible for her actions, and from what you’ve described, she’s completely aware of how she’s acted towards you.
  
  You’re not half a man for walking away from an abusive relationship, you are SMART for having the brains to know something wasn’t right and you are STRONG for not being abusive towards her.
  
  13 years is a very long time. You will heal from this, but it will take time. I urge you to go out often, talk with friends and family, go do something fun…anything to keep your mind off her and help you heal. I know what it’s like to have your heart shattered and your world turned upside down, but I assure you over time it gets MUCH better. OK? I hope you feel better and things start to go your way soon. :)
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• To women.
  

  It would depend on the individual because all of us women like different things. My husband is 5′10″, but I’m 5′9″ and it works great for us, but I personally always wanted a taller man. One of my friends in school liked shorter guys, she’s 6′0″ and her husband now is 5′10″. So there are women out there who love being the taller one! :)
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• OKay, so what do you think about this?
  

  Look, you’re obviously just trying to find ways to justify a potential relationship and not looking for serious advice. You’ve had about 7 out of 7 people tell you it’s wrong, and WHY it’s wrong, and the law backs that up. It’s wrong in ANY situation; 14 year olds should not be dating 20 year olds no matter what sex, religion, ethnicity, etc…
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• OKay, so what do you think about this?
  

  Guy, girl, what does it matter? The ages stay the same, right?
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

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