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Just for a last resort, how much does it cost to just talk to your own doctor about a problem like this. Seeing that Im under 18 and dont have a job yet and may need to talk about this and obviously cant go with my parents, how could I go about doing this?

I will definately try your advice. I think it may be pretty hard to think of it as a postive thing, but I get what you mean. I’ll try and see if it works out because it sounds like a good idea. It’s good to know that I’m getting this advice from someone that actually experience what I’m going through. Thankyou for taking your time to help me out. :)

Well see the thing is, I actually had a point recently where I told myself to suck it up and not worry about stuff anymore and it actually kind of worked for a while, but I even though I tried, I knew I still had a problem. It’s hard for me to do it myself and I haven’t talked to anyone else about it like my boyfriend or my friends because I dont think they’ll really understand and I also don’t want them to feel the need to help me with my problems when they probably have their own to worry about.

Would it be better for ME in this case to try and see some kind of therapist?? Is it legal for people under 18 to go to a therpaist without a parent, like say if I went with my boyfriend? Although I don’t see how I could get there because he can’t drive for a while after accidents he got into. I really have tried and thankyou for giving me that advice, I would like to try even harder like you said because I should train my brain myself, but I’m not sure if I can try anymore. I think I may need someone else to help me with my problem because it’s lasted for so long and I dont want it to last any longer.

Well I’m still freaked out anyway because I’ve watched my friends do it before and when my friend asked if someone was there, it went to yes and then the light flickered. It was really strange. Idk some people say it’s fake, others have experienced it before and are freaked out by it.

Did they believe in it as well?

Maybe you didn’t truly believe in it or did you do it by yourself?

Well hun, chances are, shes probably an outgoing person once you get to meet her. She probably really like you and doesn’t want to say anything stupid or whatever. She just doesn’t want to make a mistake and make it so you don’t like her. Just give it time and keep tyring to make conversation with her, she’ll open up eventually!!

lol i just cant do it, I need him in my life. Anyone have any advice rather than criticism??

well it doesnt explain why im stressed it just shows what happens when I am stressed already

well not really but he keeps trying to make me jealous ad stuff with other girls and likes it when m jealous so im afraid hes gonna go like to far one day, and a lot of times when we fight he’ll say im sick of this I cant do it anymore Ive been so stressed out lately because your not the same anymore its not right and all this stuff and also when i dont tell him something and he gets mad that im not telling him he’ll say something like I swear to God I will break up with you if you dont tell me so that I tell him, it makes me feel like he doesnt care about our relatiosnhip for him to say something like that for a stupid reason

well its just so hard to get over the stress I try so hard and even once I start getting a little better, something else happens to make it all worse again and then I have to keep doing it like a routine

like I really want to change my mind to know that I should care what anyone else thinks and that I should be outgoing again but it doesnt like want to idk everything is so messed up lately

well their really nice and everything i just never have anything to say to like anyone anymore and its just really awkward around anyone other than my bf, family and close friends it never used to be like that

This is a really nice message to spread to the world and your absolutely right people should do that every day.

yea thats why I want him to know that I CAN accept change and I would do anything just to be with him