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• Well, I really want to ask out this girl that I like
  

  I knew i was right!!Lawl…
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• My girlfriend and I broke up months ago.
  

  There is nothing you can do but speculate as to why she is acting this way. I think that you didnt know her as well as you thought, and she really is a just a selfish, shallow, person.( Sociopath perhaps?)The fact is that most decent people would not act with such hatred for no reason.This is also a confusing situation to me. It is a very unusual way to handle things..im sorry that i cant be of more help, but you have to come to the understanding that you may never know why she acted this way.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• My girlfriend and I broke up months ago.
  

  There is no easy solution to this problem. If you can, reconnect with some family members or friends a.s.a.p. This situation will take some time to resolve itself and it would be nice if you has some people in your life to keep your mind off of it. If your working, really throw yourself into it, spend as much time as you can keeping busy so you dont have to think about her. Feeling bad about what happend is natural, you were given no closure. Give yourself adequate amount of time to be sad, but then put it behind you. This one moment in your life doesnt define who you are. Sometimes people turn out to be the opposite of what we think they are. There is nothing you can do to change it, you are only in control of your own actions. Its not your fault that she left you, it just wasnt meant to be, now you are free to find that special someone that is right for you.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• Well, I really want to ask out this girl that I like
  

  I guess that i was just thinking what i would do in this situation. Im good at reading other people, so i usually am confident that any feelings i have will be reciprocated. Anyhow i only meant it as a suggestion, theres nothing wrong with just going for it, but if your not sure then go with take the other posters advice.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• My girlfriend and I broke up months ago.
  

  The fact that she slept with someone else but hates you for kissing her friend, says alot about her. It seems that this relationship is a wash..let it go. You say yourself that you moved to fast with her, well learn from this and take things a bit slower the next time you get involved with somone. Take some time for yourself to adjust to being back in the states. If you absolutely need some closure, attempt to contact your ex after a couple months and explain what happend. Hopefully you 2 can be mature about it and move on from there.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

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