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• I need help with christmas presents for my children. posted (1 year) ago
  Please help me. I have contacted all the area charities and they all have told me they are out of fu…

• I found this site and hope someone out there can help me. posted (1 year) ago
  Normally I wouldn’t put my personal information on to the internet like this but I have compl…

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• im 13 and pregnant by a 19 year old we have been together
  

  You know what they may not be proud but **** happens. Have you ever done anything your parents wouldn’t be proad of. Probably. This is a site for help not nonsence remarks nocking people down for thier problems. Cant you say anything that might help this girl out instead of being a jerk. Yeah she made a bad choice. One she’ll get much critisism for and will have to live with for the rest of her life. God will foregive her as he will you so why not give some good advice instead of just using the site as a place to be an ***.
  - written 1 year ago

• Before I explain my partial reason for asking for the kindness of a
  

  Ignore the nasty remarks. There are angles out there. I wish I could help you but our family is below poverty level and I dont know if this can help but contant the website for TAFNF they may be able to help. Temperary assistance for needy families.
  - written 1 year ago

• im 13 and pregnant by a 19 year old we have been together
  

  I hope this is of help to you. I can tell you are mature but you must understand that at your age your mind is not yet able to fully comprehend this issue of yours. Believe me I speak from experience. I think first of all you need to get to a doctor and make sure your okay and the babys okay. Second, you should seriouly let your parents know. Seriously. Even if it causes problems if both of you are mature then you should understand the need to be honest and face the consequences of your actions. I understand this will be the hardest thing in your life but it will be worse if you don’t. You need to think about the little one inside you and though it may not be something you want to do it is essential to do this. If he gets in trouble he needs to understand that it will only be temperary where as raising a child is forever and if he and you truely love eachother you will get through it. I am against abortion and though I dont condone your situation it is a life inside you. You do however need to be very careful as pregnancy at such a young age can be complicated and high risk. When you tell your parents they are not going to be happy but they will always love you. No one can make you do anything but be open to thier opinions as you owe it to them. Try to remain calm rational and respectful to thier feelings these will improve but you need thier help. There are national hotlines you should look up for pregnant teens. these will be very helpful. I hope the best for you. May god protect and bless you and may you me mature and handle this in a proper manner.
  - written 1 year ago

• I need help with christmas presents for my children.
  

  Thanks for the back up Den12. My boys know I love them. I know what they like and dislike and yes presents are not everything but you know what I don’t have anything at all. We make just enough to pay our rent. The boys are 7 years old. Do you honestly think they’ll understand? No. I will take that dollor store opportunity as I have no choice but seriously I wont have but 10 dollars. My husband lost his job and I am a cashier working 15 hours a week and a full time student. I give my boys all the love I am capable of every single day. They are my Life. My miricle babies- they were very premature and we almost lost them. I got sick and was hospitalized for 3 months with thier birth and infection, staff and Ecoli ate up my insides and they had to remove several organs and all my baby making stuff. So don’t tell me to give them love like I don’t. I am very grateful to God for my boys and Show them every chance I get. They are wonderful little boys and we have never been able to “spoil” them with material things so they appriciate everything and none of us are materialistic in any way as we don’t have much anyway but I have never been in such a position as to not have anything. Thank you
  - written 1 year ago

• I’ve been thinking about adoption.
  

  I would. They are some of the most wonderful people I have ever met. I think they are gifts from god as are all children.
  - written 1 year ago

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