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• (4 votes) I dont mean to go all Philisophical on your *****, but what is the ultimate goal in a relationship?
  

  I agree.. but I think the ultimate goal in any relationship is happiness. You want your mate to be happy and of course they want the same for you. To me there is nothing more enchanting to see than true happiness.
  
  - written 4 years, 6 months ago – voted for by kostas2, ~~EdieAnne~~, skyy, joelpietersen

• (2 votes) Dear Jesus Christ i have suffering chronic mental illness
  

  Who are you to decide who should believe in any certain truth. You’re a moderator for Christs sake, and I use his name in vane here, I apologize for that. What rights do you have to attempt to make others feel insecure in their religion or faith when they came here looking for support and help. This IS a help site and YOU moderate it, I’m sure in your best judgment, but can we not allow others their beliefs while holding rein on our own beliefs in order to help them?
  
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Lirou, windmills

• (2 votes) I can not be helped because I choose not to help myself.
  

  Sarah.. tonight I read your post and cried. I left my computer, got up and walked outside so I could look at the sky and the stars and the night, and I cried. I know the strength needed to chase demons and rage against the inner pull of the need to be where you ended your day.
  I also know what it took for you to stand here in front of all of us and say you failed. You didn’t, that took guts, real inner strength.
  You didn’t fail.
  Maybe it was good for a moment, but when the dust cleared you chose regret instead of embracing the feeling created by what you try so hard to rid yourself of. Don’t be so hard on yourself, we care, and some of us have been where you now walk. We’ll help in any way we can, talk with us.
  How can we help? What can we do? What do you need from us?
  
  - written 4 years, 2 months ago – voted for by Rosabella, friendlyheart

• (2 votes) Hey, help.com, where are people like you in the real world?
  

  The truth about those we meet during our day is that most are just swiming the stream just as we are. Struggling to make it to the same point we’re hoping to get to though most are focused on self and ingnore the rest some are more connected such as the ones on this site.
  
  Here’s a verse that says a bit about it..
  
  SWIM
  
  you’re a stranger
  lost in thought
  i see you
  through your window
  we sit at the light
  i wonder about you
  and the others too
  i smile and nod
  you ignore it
  we drive on
  these flailing souls
  trying hard to get somewhere fast
  like salmon
  rushing upstream in the river of their lives
  we can’t hear
  the million questions in the minds of each
  we can’t see
  the feelings stamped on their heart
  we’ve no clue
  what it’s like to be them
  then i realize
  we are them
  they are us
  synchronicity makes the connection
  am i different
  from the other fish in the river
  i am created in the same fashion
  i crave the same things
  the needs
  the wants are the same
  smiles go unnoticed
  gentleness is overlooked
  manners dismissed
  the race goes on
  as all eyes turn away
  focused on the stream..
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by madam_kitty, ~❤♡❤~

• (2 votes) am i in love with him?
  

  I’ve heard it said that opinion are like a**es, everyone has one and most are not pretty. So here’s mine to add to the mix. When you love someone your happiness is secondary to theirs, when you’re in love those feeling are reciprocated and each partner works at insuring the happiness of the other. This is when you become soulmates. (just my on thoughts, don’t quote it).
  
  - written 4 years, 5 months ago – voted for by berta, ¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ

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• I am sad,Today 31st march is my birthday !
  

  HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! :)
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• I phone.
  

  J… you can buy extended life batteries for almost any phone on the market, they’re usually good for about 24 hours of continuous use.
  
  Also when I had my phone, I was always around water, so I had it insured. The cost was about $3.10 a month. The insurance is not required in a contract agreement for most phones, but if it gets damaged or lost you must buy the replacement for it, if it was not insured because in most contract agreements you must carry their service for one to two years.
  
  Also… some batteries develop a memory from short usage cycles, tell ‘S’ to leave his on until the battery turns the phone off a few times, this will help extend the life of it and allow it to fully recharge..
  
  Hope this helps.. ‘b’
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

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  Sorry, notheretoda… not going there..
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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  [quote BuckingFastard (J.N)]Thank you, I wish you the best for the new year as well.
  
  I intend to live more this year, and to enjoy life more, although 2012 was a very good year, 2013 could be even better.[/quote]
  
  J.. you’re already living more than anyone on this site, make the best of every day as you always do. The people here could do well to listen to your wisdom, though they seldom listen to anyone..
  
  Thank you for your reply..
  
  See ya… ‘b’
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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  [quote ~ML~]Yeah… Go for a walk, have a conversation face to face, say hi to strangers, go out for a coffee. Sounds good! Can I bring my computer? (I’m kiiiiiidding! lol)
  
  Happy New Year to you, sweetie!! X
  
  Looking at the very low activity level on Help today, it appears that your New Year wishes for others are already coming true! :D Does that mean you have to be careful what you wish for in 2013? Is it time to check out lottery tickets yet??? :D
  
  I KNOW this is going to be a great year! Mmmmmwuah! Love you…. :) ♥
  
  :D[/quote]
  
  Honey you can bring whatever you wish as long as you’re with me, lol..
  
  Love you, xxxxxxxxx
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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