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CantFigureOut offline Verified (1 year) Long Term User An Undisclosed Location

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I can be a really nice person, but on the same note I have no problem telling it it like it is, and in doing so, I often push people away. All my life I have found it very hard to keep or make friends. I mean, I do have a bad attitude at times but I dont try to have a bad attitude..I guess i have been this way for so long that I dont know how else to be. I am trying to make a change. My mom has told me that I first have to love myself..and Im working on that too. On one hand Iam tired of being alone all the time but on the other hand, I feel I have to let people know from the very beginning that I dont play games. Many times people mistake my kindness for weakness and that I dont like. Anyway, For the most part its just me and my two kids. They bring me so much Joy. If not for having them in my life, I wouldnt be sure I had any purpose on this earth. Even as a mom I still cant figure out why I am the way I am. I want happiness and peace and love in my life…but I wonder too often if I will ever find it.It is whatever I am looking for.

Where did you grow up?
California

Where do you live now?
California

What is the highest level of education you have attained?
highschool

What kinds of jobs have you held? Industries too!
Healthcare

What hobbies are you into?
skinny dipping

What causes are you concerned about today?
poverty

If you claim a political party affliation, which is it?
democrat

Which religion (if any) do you follow?
new christian

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Whatswrongwithme, ERM08, MyLit'lGirls, needAfriend.