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• Please help, I have a hijacked host file! posted (12 months) ago
  !! Someone has taken over my host and I can’t click on any link and go to the links page. Why?…

• Does anyone know how to fix a hijacked host? posted (12 months) ago
  i can’t go to lavasoft, or pctools, or windows update, or any of the major sites that can hel…

• Does anyone know how to fix a hijacked host file? posted (12 months) ago
  The hijacker is redirecting any link I click on to crazy stuff advertising stuff, and trying to ent…

• When I do a search using google, yahoo, etc., and click on the page I want to go to, I’m being re-directed to an entirely unrelated page. posted (12 months) ago
  Can anyone help me?…

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• I don’t know what to do.
  

  I know that’s probably not what you wanted to hear, but if she’s cheating and it’s time to move on, you’ve got some stuff to go through (if you love her). An old friend of mine used to say, “why would I deny you the pain that might set you free”? It’s a good quote. Pain is there for a reason. It’s makes us look at our decisions, and make better ones moving forward. My advice . . . find a good little church where you can really get to know the people there. Develop strong friendships and work on those first. Get to know God for awhile and let Him find your wife and family.I’m praying for you. Good luck.
  - written 12 months ago

• I don’t know what to do.
  

  I guess I’ve always looked at things like that with an attitude of “things are exactly what they are supposed to be.” I guess what I mean is, if she’s cheating, it’s much better to find out now then say, 5 years from now when you’re married right? And if that’s the kind of girl you’re going for, and trying to find commitment in, maybe you need to look at the reasons you’d set yourself up for a future let down. I’m not saying it’s your fault, but WE ALL play the bigger part of getting what we get and it’s important, responsible, and healthy to look at why we choose the people we do . . . because at some point you chose her. Does that make any sense? This may be an opportunity for you to grow within yourself so that you can find someone descent. . . not someone who’s going to cheat when she don’t get her way which is terribly selfish . . . but without God, most of us are selfish.
  - written 12 months ago

• Substance abuse.
  

  I’m still there too anonymously. I just relapsed a couple of days ago. The only words of wisdom are to get up! We know the path we need to be on and can probably think of some fairly responsible 1st steps to move back toward recovery. Accountability, staying out of tempting situations, working steps, doing things for ourselves like exercise, going back to school; doing things for others like service, and most important, developing a maintaining a relationship with God. All the best to you. I have some big decisions to make this week too. I’m praying for us both.
  - written 12 months ago

• why are second marriages so hard?
  

  That’s a loaded question . . . but to answer safely, I think that all relationships can be hard without God. To comment on “why women let men treat them poorly” that usually comes from within ourselves, as does the type of mate we attract. Are you both Christians and have you tried counseling?
  - written 12 months ago

• Kinda strange
  

  Well, they might just miss you. But I don’t know them or your situation. Sometimes, we have different seasons in our life where old friends and the things we used to do become unappealing. Sometimes we realize that it’s time to move on.
  - written 12 months ago

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