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• Sometimes in life you just have to do what you have to do, Linda posted (2 years, 11 months) ago
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• Would you persue a relationship without sex?
  

  It depends on how strong your love is for the person in question? If sex would be acceptable with someone else while in the relationship such as a prostitute with no real relationship involved.
  
  A lot depends on why a person cannot or does not want to have sex. Is it a cannot or a doesn’t want to situation?
  A relationship with the opposite sex without sex is based on pure friendship and would alternately become like a brother sister relationship.
  
  It is a different ball game if something happens to someone in an existing relationship that then prevents them medically from having sex, like a car crash with a man losing his balls, god forbid.
  
  You don’t say:
  
  A) If there is a medical reason for not wanting sex?
  
  B) If they have had sex beforehand or not?
  
  I might add that if you have been previously having sex with your fiancé and they come out with this, either you have been doing it wrong or they are just testing you out on your feelings for them.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• A Stupid Question.
  

  Good answer half pint, I ran a breakdown service for many years and can tell you half pint is right on this, lol.
  No question is stupid to ask if you don’t know the answer then it never hurts to ask!
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Ive been having problems with my gf.
  

  Consider this. Maybe she genuinely does just want to stay just friends, in which case she could be behaving like this in order to try and let you down gently. Women don’t think like men, a man would just simply end the relationship and not be bothered about staying friends.
  
  Sometimes one has to let go, then the other person will either realize what they are losing and come back or be able to just stay friends.
  
  Sounds to me like you are a bit clingy, sorry it is just the way you come over. I mean checking her myspace. She is far more likely to stay or come back to you if you stop coming over as controlling. A lot of women will split up with a man just because they don’t like feeling controlled or dictated to. The only way you will win in this situation is to give her space.
  
  Look at it this way, if she thinks that you might go off, and spend time with a friend who is a girl/woman, how would she react, like you with jealousy or would she be fine with it? If she showed jealousy then she still has feelings for you if not then you should end it and find someone who does love you.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• i need help getting motivated while divorce is dragging on.
  

  That is awful, how old is your daughter and why can’t you see her?
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• my boyfriend and i have been dating for only about 2 weeks, and already it seems like it’s been years together.
  

  Sounds good to me, I felt like this when I fist went out with my now hubby of 35 years. But take care to be sure and not rush in to fast, people are not always what they appear to be, and people can change once they get a ring on your finger.
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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