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• How do I file for Bankruptcy? posted (11 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I have so much debt and horrendous credit that I figure the only way to get rid of it is to file b…

• Foster Care? posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  !?!?! Why is it that I hear about so many abusive foster parents that just do it for the money? Sh…

• Why? posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  ~~ WHY ARE PEOPLE SO IGNORANT? ~~ I don’t understand how people can be racist… it ma…

• Abusive Relationships posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  When I first met my ex, I was 19 years old and he was my first everything. We spent every moment t…

• To all the cutters… posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I used to be a cutter for over ten years and it’s really a touchy subject for me because I felt l…

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• Foster Care?
  

  I appologize Nicole… I wasn’t trying to say that every foster parent is abusive and only does it for the money… I know there are great ones, but unfortunately they don’t make the news… there are so many cases that are horrible… my friend that I wrote about in my post’s mother gave her up for drugs and the lady who ended up adopting her 8 years later made her and her 2 siblings take depression drugs to get more money, she didn’t care… I’m glad, however, that you were in great homes and that you give a great home to another foster child and pay it forward… that is a beautiful thing. I have a 4 year old biological daughter and I can’t imagine ever getting so upset that I would spank her or do any other type of harm… the worst thing I do is yell at her.
  
  Take care! :-)
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago

• To all the cutters…
  

  [quote Gaurdian_Angel]This is a great post, and thanks for putting it up. Im a cutter, and your right no one seems to understand unless they are themselves, but it hurts to see the people around you affected by it. Im glad that you have over come it.[/quote]
  
  
  you can overcome it too… if you ever want to chat, let me know because I really know how it is… I was a cutter from an early age up until my 20’s… I know how difficult it is to stop but you can do it. Take care of yourself!
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• I have unsubscribed to religion and I feel so lost.
  

  [quote GstGrl]The subject of religion itself is a very touchy subject… I think that it’s very easy to “lose your religion” because of all the bad things that go on and the first person to be blamed is God… everybody says that if God was real, he wouldn’t let all of these bad things happen in the world, he wouldn’t allow abuse or murder or depression… I have lost my religion many, many times… including recently… I was just telling my daughter this morning that we should find a church to go to… she said “I don’t hear bells momma”… lol. Anyway, I wish I had a great answer for you but I don’t, religion is so personal and everybody has their own views and levels of belief. Best of luck with this and I hope you find your religion or at least your reason for such a drastic religious change… hope you find what makes you happy and content!!! :-)[/quote]
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• I have unsubscribed to religion and I feel so lost.
  

  sorry… my response is awaiting approval… AGAIN!!!
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• I have unsubscribed to religion and I feel so lost.
  

  The subject of religion itself is a very touchy subject… I think that it’s very easy to “lose your religion” because of all the bad things that go on and the first person to be blamed is God… everybody says that if God was real, he wouldn’t let all of these bad things happen in the world, he wouldn’t allow abuse or murder or depression… I have lost my religion many, many times… including recently… I was just telling my daughter this morning that we should find a church to go to… she said “I don’t hear bells momma”… lol. Anyway, I wish I had a great answer for you but I don’t, religion is so personal and everybody has their own views and levels of belief. Best of luck with this and I hope you find your religion or at least your reason for such a drastic religious change… hope you find what makes you happy and content!!! :-)
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

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