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• Is it fair to say i broke up a family in this situation? posted (1 week, 4 days) ago
  - My husband went to prision for 3yrs. During this time his ex wife and daughter moved out of state.…

• can drinking cold (not iced) water 9 min. posted (1 month) ago
  before taking oral temprature cause a reading of 95 degrees F?…

• is it common to have an oral temprature reading of 95 degrees F if a person drank cold (not iced) water about 9 min. posted (1 month) ago
  prior to taking temp.? it makes sense cold beverages could cause reading to be lower or inaccurate, …

• Am I wrong for being anoyed? posted (2 months) ago
  My husband has an at home (do anywhere) loan officer job-he facilatates loans between businesses an…

• Does anyone know what an in-house commission based job is? posted (2 months) ago
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• job orentation/interview question. posted (2 months) ago
  During a job orentation/interview is the orentation process for people who are actualy hired as new …

• When someone makes provocative,off colour remarks to the opposite sex what are their possible motivations? posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
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• Is it fair to say i broke up a family in this situation?
  

  That is true-thank you for your insights-I never thought of anxiety as being a major motivator for his behaviour-probibly because he manafests the fight response typicly-somehow I always associated axiety more with the flight response. As I said he comes across as so self assured-and he allways says he has no anxiety about anything-but you have provided me with an objective look at the issue, and have caused me to look at things from other angels-again thanx
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

• i have problems with algebra is there any way i can
  

  Ask teacher, get a tutor, study groups-
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

• Is it fair to say i broke up a family in this situation?
  

  Oh I asked once what I should do if something happened to him-he has things at our home he want’s his daughter to have upon his passing. He said even if he died, I should not get their number and I should not call them. He said if he did not call/talk to them after a week or so they would know something happened and figure it out. So if he were to die or become ill or injured he want’s them to just figure it out. I don’t know but I allways thought that was a little strange.
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

• Is it fair to say i broke up a family in this situation?
  

  You are right-I am asking him to change to help me feel better. Thank you for suggestions-i have never quite seen him as being afraid of conflict, because he comes across as abrasive, confident, outgoing, ever a little aggressive at times. he does not hesitate to tell me how things are going to be. Perhaps he uses a confident exteriour to mask a not so confident interiour.
  I always assumed mabye he never really told them I existed, or they had different information than I did and he did not want us compairing notes, or he said no just to say no. Because he would not show me his divorce decree, filed joint taxes with his ex after their divorce,and after our marriage, and kept her listed as current spouse on all legal documents, as well as keeping me seperate i even thought he might be a bigamist. I have allways thought he was hiding something. Mabye I was wrong.
  Intereasting but he has said he does not tell them anything about me- they asked my name once -and does not want them to have our current adress, and I certainly don’t have theirs.
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

• I need help finding the right career that fits my personal intrests
  

  Ok-some ideas 1) research scientist 2)Pharmasist 3)doctor 4) teacher-mabye highschool/college biology/math instructor
  - written 1 week, 4 days ago

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