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well there you go dear. love yourself.

My fiancae and i will be apart for the last year of our engagement because he will be in law school, but I love him enough to make it work. True i will miss his arms around me and miss the way his hair falls on his face but in the long run the pain of him not being with me in person will pay off

well try a long distance type thing

you could try that. go with your gut. i am a big believer in gut feelings

ok. i will try that. i am about willing to just about anything now. I am at the point of “AHHHHHHH!!!!” and pulling my hair out. plus it is finals week here

you can do anything. do not underestimate yourself. you do not have to have anyone. moving on can be a long process. some people have to go through all the stages of grief. just give yourself time

i know dear. but love is not about what you get it is all about what you give. giving him the freedom to go, giving yourself time to heal, giving it a chance to all work out. do not worry about what you can not control

if you truely love him you will let him follow his dreams, and I know that is hard. PLus if he is not serious and this is a mean joke u do not need him

I know. i am stressing to because I am worried that this will somehow interfere with my relationship. I stress over being stressed. now that seems crazy. I think my biggest problem is racing thoughts but I can not do anything about them

cutting feels good beacuse it realease adrenaline. you are in a sense getn high off your pain. also it can be a control thing like binging and purging.

college does not allow a lot of time for relaxation. I am trying to plan a wedding, get my degree, take care of a sick mother, and have a life of my own. I was stable untill I transfered here. New state, new people, and a completely differnt life style took me by suprise

there is nothing wrong in asking for someone to help you. you can only lie for so long

Suicide is not the answer to anything. I know that sometimes it seems so easy but there is so much to live for. Even when we can not see what it may be, we have a purpose.