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hmm good idea i could ask for a piece of clothing. (:
and I’ll try my best to keep it at innocent friendly flirting for sure, thanks everybody.

it kinda seems like hes an older who man who knew the right things to say and do to get a young niave girl to fall for him. its not your fault. all you can do is try to forget him, get rid of all the things that remind you of him or make you think of him. only time can heal a broken-heart.

mhmm thanks. he either likes me or not and when we hang out saturday I’ll know. we’re suppose to hang out as friends though so I dont know but whatever. Honostly after what has happened, if he’s no longer interested then I dont have time to deal with jerks that can’t make up their mind.

aha no my sister cheated on her boyfriend
my situation is different though. I hooked up with another guy pretty drunk and we weren’t even dating. But then he got upset about it and I learned my lesson. then he hooked up with someone but he screwed up alot harder then I did. And we talked everything out yesturday and he was still crazy for me. But I think that msg I sent him got him thinking and now he’s lost interest. I think the best thing I can do is just hang out with him on saturday and see how things go. If he really is done with me then he’s a jerk, and like I said, I dont have time for jerks

the whole situation is a little too embaressing. But basically (though it actually is alot more worse then this) I hooked up with someone and he hooked up with someone and it was just so very confusing and frustrating…but he still was crazy about me but then I told him I thought we should just hang out as friends when we see eachother this weekend and he said he just wants to stay friends and not go anywhere from there. and I want to bring the spark back. this is so random and quick I really just want to get him crazy about me again. but you’re so right. I didn’t think of it that way till you said it. if he doesn’t like me anymore, after what has happened between us, it really does make him a jerk and I dont have time to deal with jerks

aha I didn’t reveal myself…my sister cheated on her boyfriend. but whatever that’s not the point. and you really think so? how come? though you may be right. maybe he is a jerk.

no that wasn’t me aha sorry that was my sister who cheated on her boyfriend and she just wanted to see what people would say. uhm are you even suppose to reveal peoples identities from anonymous posts?
anyway this guy isn’t even my boyfriend. I mean he kept telling people we were dating and whatever and all of a sudden after this screwed up situation he doesn’t care anymore. gahh I don’t know what to do. I want to make him fall for me again. But I dont think I can. gahh things are so screwed up

huh? lol sorry I just need some advice this is actually really bugging me and I’m not undertanding what you’re trying to say.

^^actually it’s grade 11 you are a junior and grade 10 you are a sophmore I’m pretty sure, but I could be wrong.

aha I dont really see how our problems were related but I would love to try and help. (btw I dyed my hair to the kelly clarkson look and I really like it. It has alot less blond then the picture, but it makes it look more natural and gives it more of an easy/relaxed look.) ANYWAY. I dont think you should give him a call hun. If he really enjoyed himself and wanted to continue in this persuit with you then he would easily give you a call. Also you should just end it with the realtionship you have right now, instead of going out on dates when you are technically already taken. You may miss out on alot more bc of this relationship you are in. All the best with this new guy, I hope he does call you. I don’t know exactly if he’s blowing you off (bc I dont know the details of the date or even how long he hasn’t called you for) but he may just not be calling to make you sweat a little or is just busy. Just give it some time, if he doesn’t call then whatever, you can do much better, preferrably a guy that atleast calls after the first date.

confident, sexy, smart, funny, interesting, surprising, sweet, sensitive, masculin, cute, kind, positive, and etc. No that’s one hell of a guy ;)

Once your piercing heals properly you can take it out and put it back in whenever (not including all piercings). But first off, hun your parents will probably still be able to notice the scar from the piercing even if it’s fully healed and you take out the piercing. Also it can take a very long time for a piercing to heal and since part of the lip piercing is inside your mouth it can close even faster (when piercing is take out). Anyways I’m just trying to explain that it will probably be very hard to hide that piercing.

sweetie, what you are feeling is completely understandable. But this is reality hun, rejection is something everyone must grow through, and though tough, must learn to live with.

It’s hard to forget about something that was so segnificant in your life. But you must move on. Don’t try to focus on her so hard. Just accept your thoughts of her and take the time you need to collect yourself as an individual and in time you’ll be fully moved on. My last breakup left me thinking of a guy every single day for well over 3-4 months. Even without a single word shared between us I still couldn’t get him off my mind, and at times wandered if I ever would. But in time your mind does forget and you do emotionally heal. You may never fully get over her, but you do deserve to be happy and not let lingering thoughts ruin you.

aha thanks anon, that’s nice of you to say.