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  Anonymous and others:
  It’s called hope. People want it, crave it, sometimes do anything to get it, but when we go to extreme lengths to find something to live for, we start living for just anything.
  We are constantly looking for things to keep ourselves occupied, to give us a reason to stay. People do all this to ‘numb’ the pain, take their minds off of it, that it makes them ‘feel better’.
  
  All lies. It will not and CAN NOT make you feel better. It adds to your problem’s and makes everything worse. Giving up, resorting to violent, damaging behavior, it sucks the life out of you and eventually you merely just exist.
  
  I too know what it is like to lose EVERYTHING…. but that doesn’t mean you can’t get it back.
  
  STOP feeling sorry for yourself. Stop thinking ” everything sucks, no one cares, I don’t care.’ You do and you know it, that’s why you’re here.
  
  Truth… we want to be saved. We want to be healed, we just don’t want to have to DO anything to get it.
  Get off your butt. Do something to make life worthwhile. Wallowing and moping over your loses isn’t going to fix or change it, only make it worse. Face the pain. Stop running from it. I know it’s hard and it can hurt SO bad, but it can only get worse if you give up, and only get better if you don’t. It’s not worth giving up. Start really thinking about WHY you are in this mess… Whether it was you or someone else, you have to FORGIVE. The hardest person to forgive is yourself, and it IS hard, but you will only feed the hurt if you don’t accept that you are human, you make mistakes, NO ONE IS PERFECT! I know this may not be what you want to hear, but now might be a good time to do a little soul searching. Figure out your life, who you are, where you want to go with it. Look for spiritual healing. Allow yourself to love again, let go of all those terrible feelings. Laugh! Laughter is great medicine. Relax. ENJOY life instead of hating it. It might take time but often when there’s a problem in your life, it’s partially because there’s a problem within you. Take time for yourself, just not every day all day.
  
  Here is what you need to remember:
  
  Forget- pain and hurt others caused you, they are probably hurting as well and don’t know how to deal with it so they take it out on others.
  
  Forgive- yourself for making a mistake, don’t push it off or hide it, or think ‘I made a mistake, but whatever I’m human it doesn’t matter if it hurt someone they’ll get over it. Instead think about what you’ve done, don’t feel guilty about it, but be sorry for what you did and try to do better next time.
  
  Love- the people in your life, firneds and family, with all your heart, and do your best to be there for them and show them you care, they may not openly appreciate it, but they will one day.
  
  Laugh- Take time to have fun every now and then, but don’t go over the top.
  
  Learn- from your mistakes instead of hating them, everything in your life is therre for a reason and is there to help you in some way or make you stronger, think about the double/hidden meaning.
  
  Repent- of your bad habits and faulty ways. Realize there is fault with you and within you in some cases and do your best to try to change that. If not for yourself, for others. It is a sin to throw away life, and it is also one to hate yourself, you are beautiful and worth saving. Your worth is determined by your Heart, and your Spririt, not your achievments. You ARE special and very important even if you don’t always see or believe it. If you weren’t, why would you be here?
  
  And Believe- in yourself, in others, learn to trust, and even look towards God when you need someone, He is always there and He is always listening, he will answer your Prayers.. it is not that He is not listening, but it is that sometimes He has to say no… He always does what is best for you, even if you don’t see it.
  
  
  I knwo this is a very long answer, but save it and read it later, you may find there are things you will understand more once you take the time and care to change and better yourself and your life.
  
  Make your life WORTH living, or else, make it worthwhile for others. Life is meant to be spent for others as well…. you’ll find the more you think about others and their needs, the better you’ll feel about Live and Love, and all the other miracles in life.
  
  Think about it.. okay?
  
  Best Wishes, and love.
  
  God’s Messenger.
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago

• i need help..or someone to talk to
  

  LET yourself fall in Love with him. Maybe you were supposed to. What are your reasons for NOT going out with him? Look.
  There are four things that could happen.
  
  A) Forget all about him, don’t go out with him, don’t talk to him, become miserable without him, and possibly lose him forever.
  
  B) Tell him, possibly break up sometime down the line, in which the worst that would happen is that you get hurt,(keep in mind there are good and bad sides to almost everything and although you’re meant to be things still won’t be perfect) you will eventually heal from it, and find the person you are REALLY meant for. Your experience in this relationship would still help you in learning and growing, and make you a better person, and you’ll have a better relationship with the man you are meant for. You lose some but you win also. Maybe you are meant for each other, just not yet.
  
  Or C)…You can choose NOT to cut him out of your life… tell him how you feel… make one of the bravest, hardest, scariest choices you may ever make… and end up with with the one of the best things that has ever happened to you.
  
  Don’t be like the rest of us, who are too afraid to admit or tell someone we love them, who spend our lives in alone, regretting, in worse pain than before. You will always have friends and family of some sort around, and that is an incredible blessing, but that doesn’t mean you should walk away. IF you are meant for this guy, things will work out one way or another, and I can promise you that so long as you have even just the tiniest grain of faith… it will work out the way it’s supposed to, you will have Love, you won’t lose. Because as long as you learn, or become better or stronger in some way from any experience, you will lose nothing but the pain and sadness you once had.
  
  Take the advice, don’t make the mistake so many have… make the choice that is the best for YOU. Don’t worry about making others happy when it comes to Love, because they’re opinion doesn’t matter in this, you will only keep yourself from being happy if you do. When it comes to Love… fight for it.
  
  I wish you all the best, I hope you make the right decision.
  I almost didn’t….
  And remember…
  
  If you miss the train, it was going the wrong direction anyways, just wait for the next one.
  
  Your Friend:
  White Wolf.
  
  Sorry about the novel-long reply. XP
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• what is the point of it all?
  

  This post was about telling what purpose you have for living…. I find it very silly that it turned into a rather naive view point war…. The point of this post is to give YOUR opinion on life… and in a respectful manner… so everyone quit telling everyone else why you think the others are wrong… that’s why they are OPINIONS… they aren’t always right… but who says they’re wrong? Be respectful! Say what you think and leave it at that, if someone asks a question to you answer it respectfully, that means respecting what THEY view as well! Say what you wish to say about your view on life and leave it at that.
  
  Sorry, it just bothers me when people force their opinions on others who view differently…. once again sorry. :)
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• what is the point of it all?
  

  The entire point and purpose of life, no matter the circumstances, no matter your ethnic, religious, or personal perceptions and backgrounds, no matter what you’ve been through or what you’ve been given, or what goals you plan to obtain or achieve, all in all… The true and ultimate purpose of Life… is Love…. not just to be Loved.. but to Love… because without Love… nothing matters… without Love… nothing is whole… without Love… nothing can be achieved… nothing is worth anyhting…. unless it has Love, or is done by, through.. or with Love.
  
  ~God’s Messenger~
  
  I hope this helps you.
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

• i need help..or someone to talk to
  

  0908flemkate @ student.ednet.ns.ca
  
  or
  
  white-wolf.13 @ hotmail.com
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago

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