I have a similar situation. I married on the rebound and after 5 years of marriage, the ‘one who got away’ finally came around. All the feelings were still there, feelings I never had for my husband. So for a year, I carried the torch for this other guy and although I never physically cheated on my husband, I was cheating emotionally. I decided it wasnt fair to either of us and filed for divorce. That was a year ago. My now ex-husband is a wreck and the other guy lost interest once I became ‘available’. So now Im alone, and the grass is not greener. I dont know if I made the right choice, seems like I caused a lot of pain for myself and my family. I not comfortable giving you advice, just wanted to share my own experience. - written 12 months ago
