Don’t entirely know. I think we may have moved in together too quickly and at a crucial time work wise. Plus she was heavily influenced by other people, she used to change totally around other people and her mom was the same. Just before the break up her Mom, going on the advise of other people decided to present Katie’s Dad with divorce papers. It was totally undeserved but her friends reckoned that because he was distant for a few days after his mom, (katies grandmother) passed away, that she should divorce him.
After this it must have made her mom realize what she had and the pare of them became closer than they had been for a while.
I thought katie might have been influenced by this. My reasoning for this is because i started seeing someone who took pity on me not long after (rebound thing, scared of being alone after so long in a relationship, pathetic!) she had hacked into my e-mail and seen my e-mails to said girl and rung me, screaming at me saying, “I thought we had something special”.
Yet before hand when i said i would wait for her if she liked, (looking for light at the end of the tunnel) she said not to, and that she wanted to be single again.
My other girl friends (platonic) that i used to work with said she was just doing the typical girl thing of “i don’t want you, but know one else can have you either.”
I never understood that though. - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago