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Removing underline from hyperlink text posted (6 months, 3 weeks) ago
the problem: when importing texts into office documents, the hyperlinked texts retain their appeara…
ADHD posted (1 year) ago
i recently found out i’ve been hanging around carrying this disorder all my life and i was ne…
someone stole my username posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
for some reason i could not log in except from the recovery method, when i logged in i found out th…
need help with outlook. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
exporting addresses from windows mail in windows vista, to outlook 2007 in windows 7. i couldn̵…
how can i send a gift through e-mail? posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
i want to send a distant internet friend a gift, to a different country in europe. though understa…
a way to view the world posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
my current view of existence is that we are all here on a mission to fix ourselves internally, in o…
If you could have any one superpower… posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
on one condition: everyone else in the world will get the exact same power. what will you choose? …
its like trying to solve a geometry problem by burning the book.
- written 2 years, 10 months ago – voted for by Grim_Hardcastle, Kalen, hottie_bug6, Simba
it all just add up you know?
what i learned about such things (the hard way)
1: the burden halves whenever you tell someone the story.
2: when it affects you, embrace it and don’t fight it, it is important to mourn as much as it takes so it would not come back at you when you’re not ready for it.
3: at the end of the process of acceptance, the ones that are gone become a part of you and your personality, thus living forever.
- written 2 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Kalen, ~❤♡❤~, Always griffin
i had a good friend, that never been without a boyfriend starting from around your age.
sort of rolled parallel, she started the new relation even before finishing the previous ones
and its been like that for around 11 years from boyfriend to boyfriend
and i tell you, this is REALLY unhealthy
you MUST take breaks.
you need to learn to be just with yourself.
you need to develop personal characteristics, wills and dreams, independently of any other person.
that way you can get to know yourself and build a “standalone” personality.
which in it’s turn, would benefit future relationships.
- written 2 years, 10 months ago – voted for by Kalen, Chunkymoves, cathetel
suicide doesn’t end pain.
it ends the possibility of pain to end.
- written 3 years ago – voted for by Jolly Delta Charger, Pink Freud, poisonflower
i don’t see this as a bad thing at all.
he is just analyzing his thoughts. back before he knew you as he knows you today.
and sharing them with you.
if he had an ich for your sister still, he wouldn’t have told you.
he’d swallow it up.
be glad that he likes your sister, it is great. wouldn’t want him to dislike her.
frankly, if you want this to become a big deal - make a big deal out of it and it will.
if you want to take it as it was said without interpreting, all of you would be happier.
men often mean what they say exactly as they say it without hidden layers and meanings. plain and simple with no implications intended.
women often tend to look for these deeper meanings, often where there aren’t any.
in other words, nothing happened. nothing will. take things lightly and light they will be.
- written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by Little Geodudette, Sans
she helped you and cared for you because she loves you and wants to spend time with you. not for gifts and symbols.
so best way to thank her for it, is to spend time with her.
take her on a weekend somewhere.
a romantic tent in the wilds under the stars… or a relaxing spa…
something you would both enjoy doing together.
- written 6 months, 3 weeks ago
it seems to me that even though you feel stuck, you already know what you are missing and what should be done to get it.
as you said, new friends, girl-time hangouts, a little more independence, new hobbies, and a little more spare time.
and all these are withing your reach.
and now that they are pointed out, it is just a matter of decision.
i can only suggest general ideas…
for example - take a yoga class once a week.
(combination of a hobby, new social circles with a girl-time potential, and something to give you energy that will let you use your spare time more efficiently instead of watching tv. and it also match your healthy living approach)
go on that line - you will find many ideas that can fill the lack and return the balance to your life.
salsa class with your bf, planned vacation with your bf, a day off work…
study something, anything at all…
- written 11 months ago
[quote akke_akke]used it for 15 mins think it works ;P but will i need to start it every time i start my comp, and will i then have to start both of them ?[/quote]
both of what?
there is just one script you can add to it for the other keys as i said here before.
and as i said, put it in your startup list, and it will run everytime you turn on the computer.
you can also put a shortcut on the desktop and just activate it whenever you want.
- written 11 months, 1 week ago
thank you :)
- written 1 year ago
[quote eitherrideordie]Sounds like it will be quite a realisation, in fact I just found a ADHD quiz online
here is what it said:
“It is highly likely that you are presently suffering from adult attention deficit disorder, according to your responses on this self-report questionnaire. You should not take this as a diagnosis of any sort, or a recommendation for treatment. However, it would be advisable and likely beneficial for you to seek further diagnosis from a trained mental health professional immediately.”
[quote a wild ozy appears]pretty much the next logical thing is to go to a psychologist and get yourself diagnosed.[/quote]
undoubtedly this is what i am going to do.
but that does not replace talking with people that have it and have dealt with it all their lives…
this is so… strange.. and annoying… and retroactively frustrating… i can see back all the sad situations i would have taken much more lightly would i know why they occurred… going backwards every day in my life… the writing was bigger than the wall it was on…. and now i am sinking in self pity, surrounding the problem and enhancing it instead of fighting it, but at least i am more forgiving on myself… i wish the people around me would understand this, but i don’t know much about it myself…
- written 1 year ago