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• (1 vote) .
  

  As everyone above wrote, bulimia damages your teeth. It is difficult, if at all possible to replace normal-looking teeth. Also, if you diet, the weight will come back on.
  
  To lose weight, first of all, don’t let it bother you. Second of all, everything you do to lose weight must become part of your lifestyle for the rest of your life.
  
  So, find FUN exercise to do. Invite a group of people and go out and play basketball, soccer, tennis, badminton, volleball, hockey, and go out and do mountain-climbing, cave exploration, scuba diving, swimming, mountaineering, cycling, rowing, canoeing, martial arts, weight-lifting, walking, running, marothons, high-jumping, gymnastics, rock-climbing, hiking, river-rafting…
  
  Rediscover food. Pick up a food-guide. Find spices at your grocery store such as: hot sauce, turmeric, basil, oregano, Jerk sauce, cyan pepper, garlic, ginger etc. and this will spice up vegetables and other healthy foods. Find healthy recipes from a multitude of different countries. Eat healthy food such as Greek salad, Tandoori chicken, sushi, grilled salmon, walnut vegetable stir-fry etc.
  
  Enjoy exercising and enjoy eating.
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by sarah_hafne

• (1 vote) I don’t know what I want from life.
  

  lol! That sounds so familiar!
  You become concerned that everyone else seems to have figured out their path, yet you’re somewhat stuck. My cousin is becoming a lawyer, my boyfriend is applying for med school, my friends have nice jobs etc.
  
  I agree with what leapingcanine and anonymous wrote about living life and how the opporunities will come.
  And I agree with Finley in how accepting the state you are in as being normal and then making plans and taking action is the best thing.
  
  If you had no limitations, money was not an issue, what would you want to do?
  I know if I had money right now, I would be going to volunteer in Africa, or travel.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by hpesoj44

• (1 vote) i’m becoming kinda fat… but i’m trying by best nothing is working!
  

  To add to frandtonshar,
  
  If your step-mother and step-sisters make fun of you for being overweight, that indicates that they feel insecure about themselves. Assertively tell them how you feel. Tell them that you are not comfortable with how they make fun of you, and you feel disrespected.
  
  Also, love yourself for how you are now. Your value as a person is not equivalent to your weight. You deserve respect no matter what your weight is.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by baseballnick21

• (1 vote) Why does my fish have red like blood ,or it maybe blood ,on the mouth and up on the mouth why do you think its bleeding?
  

  It may be fungus. A veterinarian or staff at the fish store would probably have more knowledge on this.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by rocio._m

• (1 vote) For the longest time i have been a person of no religion.
  

  Wow ptgrunne,
  That is really sad that you live in an area with religious people sharing one view only. In Canada, we have a wide assortment. There are religious people with PhD’s who are pro-gay, pro-research and pro-sex education (many are mixed when it comes to abortion). Many religious people are in the sciences. There is also much respect for every religion including the choice of atheism. I am sure that you would fit in well :).
  
  hi upside_down dude,
  ptgrunne does raise the important point of freedom of religion. Remember that most countries in the world promote freedom of religion, meaning that you are also free not to have a religion if you wish. If you feel pressured to find one, then you may not be happy trying to fit yourself into a mold. Spirituality is a personal decision, so find what suits you.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by koyaanisqatsi

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• i am 27 years old, unemployed and lost.
  

  Everyone please ignore the post by thizzyfishu=izz (the post immediately above mine). Thizzyfishu=izz is in severe need of help.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• I’ve given up.
  

  The fact that you have survived means you have been successful.
  Imagine completing a computer or video game and thinking, “I can’t believe the Hard level happened to me! I should have been on Easy level!”
  I still find it strange that people respect people who finish Hard levels in computer and video games, but not necessarily in real life.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• To whoever,
  

  You’re welcome!
  From the way that you’re writing, you sound like you’re well on your way.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• My 11 year old daughter is a beautiful normal weighted intelligent girl.
  

  simonthesorcerer, I agree with your other points, but pointing out flaws in the other girl may be problematic. Girls at this age already have low self-esteem, so if the other girl were to hear about how she is flawed, the situation could become worse.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• My 11 year old daughter is a beautiful normal weighted intelligent girl.
  

  How is your relationship with your daughter? Are you able to communicate easily about all kinds of things? Do you spend time together?
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

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