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So you feel undervalued around this person, yet infatuated with them at the same time.
What would you like in a relationship with someone?

I agree with the above posts; there are many options that you can try.
Another way to look at it is that everyone has a right to have their own feelings, and everyone deserves to have their feelings respected.

Here is an example of an assertive statement for relationships:

“I feel (emotion) when you (action) on (date).”
ex. “I felt demeaned when you called me a rubber chicken in front of my friends last Wednesday.”

What strategy can you think of that you would like to try? You know what is right for you.

Do you need help with something?
High intelligence is debatable. It is a matter of perspective.
Anyways, what would you like help with?

I am referring in particular to “One suggests you remove that pole from your ****.” Did you mean that in a kind way? I am confused.
A conversation is an agreement between two people to communicate. Once one person starts giving orders to the other, they are imposing on the other person and disrespecting them. How are fights resolved? People start communicating, and listening to each others’ views and feelings.
I have to leave now, so I will not be able to instant message. If you wish to respond, I may reply later. If you wish not to respond, then I respect that you prefer not to communicate at this time.

I see that you want to assert yourself to your father, and you would like to live the life that you want.

What would you like to have in your life? How would you like to live?
What would you like to say to your father?

(I actually have to run off now, so I won’t be able to reply until much later, but I’m sure others on here would be happy to help you.)

If you do not wish to communicate, I respect that.
I ask that you respect me as well and others who use this site. Writing insults and statements such as “drop it now” only hurt others, and do not fulfill any other purpose.

There are many different possibilities. I do not really have any way of knowing for sure what the circumstances are in Tunisia, or what is happening to the person who posted this.
If the person responds, then I will help them. If not, then I am not bothered at all. At least I know that if the person needs help, they can see that someone responded and offered help. That gives a sense of hope that other people in the world care.
The reward of helping so many people far outweighs any risk of providing assistance to a fake post.

So your preference is to not become too attached to people. It’s perfectly fine to have your own preferences. If you feel like something is holding you back, or if there is something you want help with, let us know.

I see that you feel bothered that I questioned your judgment.

This could be a fake post, but then a deeper concern is what if the post is not a troll post?
How would we know?
I would rather reply to a fake post, than ignore a person who needs help.
Many people who post on here are in dire circumstances, and many who need help do not write well at all.

The reason I am bothered by your response is the chance that this is a legitimate post. I am aware of how much harm can come to a person if they are in need of help and are ignored. Psychological harm is more damaging and longer lasting than physical harm.

If a person was to post a fake post, that person would be in need of help anyway. What motivates a person to post a fake post? Is that person in need of something that they don’t have?

It seems that you’re afraid of forming a relationship with a guy, and you expressed some past experiences that affect your view of men.
Seeing a psychologist or counsellor may help you. If you are attending a college at the moment, there may be a counselling and health centre where you can find some resources.
If you are unsure of whether you are attracted to women or men, or both, it is okay to be in the process of self-discovery.

Hi darkness_and_stars

Tunisia is a country in Africa. In many African countries people speak French. Considering that a high percentage of people in North America are quite illiterate, I am not suprised that others in the world may have difficulty spelling in second languages.

Does it make sense for one to criticize the language abilities of someone else when one’s own grammar is not up to par?

Je parle un peu francais. Ma francais est comme ci comme ca.
Comment ca va? Comment est ta vie?

(I speak a little french. My french is okay. How is it going? How is your life?)

Suave what is your real opinion instead of this set-up debate?
I see that you have made several attempts to have your account cancelled. Although, on this site, we have so many open-minded people, so whatever you post, I can assure you that someone will focus on helping you :).

Maybe try an internet search for organizations that match foster parents with foster children.

If his marriage certificate is fake, then I assume that it is not a legal marriage.
Your girlfriend could tell him how she feels, and if he is still bothering her, then maybe take legal action.