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but the thing is i didn’t do anything! i don’t know what i’m doing wrong.

i’m in this situation too. honestly, i’d do anything to have them both, but that’s obviously not going to happen anytime soon. my take on it is just see how everything ends up, take each day as it comes.

i was sort of in this position last year, he’s probably just flirting, and you’re not interested anyway, but maybe keep an eye on him, just in case you do.

haha so i’m going to try to reply to everyone, starting from the first comment.
i have told her exactly this, there’s really just no getting through to her sometimes. and she told me that she’d say yes to him in a heartbeat, because she feels her life is so horrible now (which it really isn’t, she was just called back for a show at a good playhouse, she has so many loyal friends, and it’s not like this is the only guy that’ll ever come her way) she needs just this one thing. and i told her i’d be happy for her. and i would.
and i did suggest, why not let the best girl win? because, and i guess it doesn’t really matter, but i had the gut feeling, back in March when i started liking him, that he liked me. and i guess that’s what’s kept me here so long.
i don’t want to lose my best friend. but i’ve liked this kid for so long and so much, i do not want to have to make this sort of decision, even though in the end i will chose my best friend! and i guess that was worded wrong, i should be chosing her now, i’m just. ugh.
but thanks for helping me out. :)