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• This is a question geared towards my current relationship.
  

  I guess why I do worry so much is because I am very sincere towards this woman. Like I said she is everything I could want, and I feel connected to her in a way I’ve never felt before. That being said, this is why these weird vibes/feelings drive me nuts because I’d love to be able to just move on and be normal without worrying about this when I think about her.
  
  I talked to my father about this and used the analogy of a car accident. It’s like before an accident, you just view a car as any old normal vehicle. There is nothing special about it, therefor it really doesn’t worry you too much. But, after an accident, it’s almost like every time you look at that car, you just get a weird feeling about it. It’s almost like I haven’t been able to overcome some obstacle, and my biggest fear is that I feel like there is some sort of solution out there that I’m missing in order to fix this.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

• This is a question geared towards my current relationship.
  

  I’m not saying she is generally perfect on paper for any guy, I’m basically saying that what I want in a girl, is definitely what she is. The times I’ve spent with her are completely different and are completely fulfilling compared to anything I am used to.
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago

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